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In hospitals and care facilities, when a patient pushes the HELP button to call for help, no nurse or CNA ever comes right away. Usually it takes 15 minutes to 30 minutes for someone to show up. Sometimes, no one shows up at all. Should they be charged with neglect?
I wonder how often the hospital and care facility staff actually check on their patients. Every minute? Every hour? Or every few hours? In between checks, patients fall all the time. I bet some patients choked to death too and no one was there.
I wonder if they should be charged with neglect.
And P.S. and by the way, how in the world did you find a Hospice agency that sends an aide out every day to bathe your mom??? I've never heard of such a thing. My husband got bathed only twice a week while he was under their care, and none during the worst of Covid.(my son and I had to do it )
You, my dear, are doing the best you can and sounds like you are doing a great job! Installing cameras, the anxiety of running that errand, YES, you do care very much!
Consider a different hospice, after that they should be fired! The new hospice I have for my mom is night and day difference. One week they told me mom needs 24/7 care, the next week, because she could barely wobble to the toilet she no longer qualifies. Came in and cut her off. Then I get a call from protective services. A week later mom is diagnosed with lung cancer. I may ask, why is mom bedridden? Does this hospice have her "morphed" out already?
I appreciated your "...you all act like you stay chained to the person you are caring for.." and agree with you.
This forum is getting to be too much for me. I've cutback how often I visit.
Who would leave an infant in a crib all alone to go run an errand?
"I HOPE NO ONE WOULD."
Guess what? A bedridden person is as helpless as an infant.
Le’s be kind and respectful to one another. This isn’t a debate. It’s a discussion where all views should be heard. We can politely agree to disagree on topics. The OP can determine what is useful for her.
If people want to debate an issue put up an interesting topic in the discussion section of the forum to receive feedback.
We all realize that there are differences between adults and children. Please acknowledge there are similarities too.
Neither young children or seriously ill adults can take care of themselves. They are both helpless. Please look at comments in their proper context.
A person nearby is available to call 911. A person who left the home cannot call for help and would feel awful if something happened.
Accidents do happen. It’s not about how often or rare they are. If something did happen the OP would feel awful.