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If Dad is still able to supervise her then fine . That would be the same as him supervising at home . You said you moved them to independent living for the help with meals , cleaning , etc.
The other residents are busy bodies .
So if dad does need help with mom he can not ask staff to do anything.
(from a friend of mine that is IL if she fell the staff is not allowed to help them up, they have to call 911 for a Lift Assist.)
Assisted Living might have been a better option. The facility where they are currently, does it have levels of care? Maybe a move to AL is appropriate now and it might be that mom may need Memory Care in the near future.
What's to "hate", I don't get it. If you keep them in IL and mom has a crisis, or dad for that matter, then you are under the gun to get them moved immediately, under duress. The handwriting is on the wall, it's up to you when you make the move for them.
The only potential issue I can foresee is the AL insisting mom go into Memory Care w/o dad, which wouldn't work. Make it clear they cannot be separated.
Good luck to you.
Have you spoken to any of the caregivers? The ladies at my mother's facility are usually wealths of information.
Other residents are not your best bets for reliable information.
Hire a caregiver to help Mom in independent living if need be.
Prioritize Dad. Keep him happy in independent living.
Ignore the comments from the residents.
Keep Dad happy.