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So I take this as in all honesty, it doesn't matter to him, he has no strong feelings either way, compared to a lot of people.
So I told him my plans , a simple military service at are national cemetery, and cremation, he shrugged and said, sure.
So maybe your husband just trust you and it really doesn't matter to him
If he hasn't had very strong feelings either way, I would just do what you think is right, and to heck with the family
Humor aside, he is your husband, you both decide or if he is really not caring, do what YOU want. As my husband said, "I am dead, what can I do about it." If others complain, let them pay for everything and sit back and have your memories.
Cheers!
You can always put darling Sue, the Sister in charge if that's what you want, as long as it is HER MONEY she's spending. For myself that would work great, because you know, after death NONE of my family wanted (or got) services. Dad's ashes are in the woods to the left of the Missouri shopping center. Mom's in Langsford's Rose Gardens, and my dearest Dee is in the Ocean he so loved to swim. As to mine? I honesty don't care where they'll go, so just it is cheap.
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;" etc. My husband loved folk music (as do I), and this song was meaningful to us and also added a spiritual dimension to an otherwise secular occasion.
I guess I'd best figure out what I want now! (But at least we have a plot.)
My dh accidentally rear ended my deceased dad’s car. The car caught on fire but he escaped unscathed. I’ve known since our relationship that he had been an organ donor for decades but due to information I learned here, I personally could not go through with having someone technically breathing going in, and a harvested corpse going out. Nor could his parents handle it.
So after 43 years, he’s off the donor registry he signed onto at 16. It took multiple contacts before we were notified that he was off the list finally.
It may seem incidental, but I would remove your dh at this point.
You know why my brother is being cremated, because he is claustrophobic.