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What an lesson of love you have shown to your husband and children . Myself, I have Adult children now and they too are very proud of me so please know that your children see what you do even if young and you are an inspiration. But, if you cat get fulltime help with your Moms funds, you are too young with a family and shouldnt put your life on hold. Best of Luck
Right now, we are doing a combination of caring for Mom ourselves and using some in-home help. So, far it has worked well.
However, the time to consider a facility is when the parent's ailments are so severe that it surpasses your ability to care for their medical needs.
If it is just a matter of comfort and being a little inconvenienced, I would choose keeping my Mother in a home environment for as long as possible. The golden rule still applies...think about what you would want if you were in their shoes.
are you still able to assist with all the ADL's? Are you getting adequate sleep? Are you attending regular support group meetings? Are you able to take care of yourself?
If your goal is to function in the best interest of your loved one, then you can't possibly make a wrong decision. Pray about it. The answer will come.
You will need to consider the pros and cons of a home health care agency vs. a ALF: 1) You need to consider whether you want to bring a stranger from a home health care agency into your home. The home health care agency would care for the patient at their home, which is a benefit for some patients. ALF offers three meals a day, monitoring, medication management, etc.
Best,
Hap
Take care - it's hard to move, but when it's necessary, then you should seriously consider this.
Carol