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WILL YOU BE LOSING YOUR PENSION
CAN YOU FINANCIALLY AFFORD TO STAY HOME
HOW MUCH CARE DOES YOUR MOTHER REQUIRE
IT SOUNDS AS IF YOU'D REALLY LIKE TO DO THIS, IF THE PROS WORK I'D SAY GO FOR IT, I'D LOVE TO STAY HOME AND CARE FOR MY MOTHER IF SHE NEEDED ME, GOOD LUCK
Our moms are really special people and we've been truly blessed have them in our lives.
I apologize for not reading your profile before I wrote my comment. I see you are a single mom and an only child who evidently has been taking care of mom since you were 20. My, my. You are definitely sandwiched between being a mother and a care giver for your mother.
In light of all that, the nice idea of quitting your job does not sound reasonable. Do you have Durable, Medical or Durable POA for your mother? If not, you need to get those by seeing an atty.
Your mother possibly qualifies for medicaid and the help it would pay for.
Good Luck!
Hap
http://www.edd.ca.gov/Disability/Paid_Family_Leave.htm
http://www.dol.gov/dol/topic/benefits-leave/fmla.htm
Your state (if not CA) may have a similar program. Also you should check with HR at your job to see if any income is provided while on FMLA.
Marissa's profile states that she's 38, a single mom with a daughter and has been taking care of her mom since she was 20 and her income is all that there is. So if she quits her job, then there is no income for taking care of her daughter, her mother or herself.
Sometimes I fail to look at a person's profile before I respond and this was one of those times.