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If you suspect that your sister is serving as POA and is using your parent funds fraudulently take your proof of this to APS and ask them to do investigation for fraud and abuse against the parents. Be aware that if you do this without good cause no one will likely speak with you at all in future.
We are a Forum made up of people who have done caregiving. When an OP writes us we get his or her side of a situation without hearing another side. With these things there is no way we could hazard a guess as to what might be happening. But we CAN advise on resources for you to complain to. Fraud perpetrated against a senior when there is a Fiduciary Duty under the law (and such is the case for a POA) is punished under our laws; there is little sympathy in the courts for those who rip off seniors. Good luck.
PS: If your parents write you a check go ahead and cash it. If your sister is correct that they are not now allowed to do that because of diagnosed incompetency, then the check will not clear. If the check clears, your sister is wrong, and if she is financial POA she will have to arrange with the banks to set up the accounts as they should be. For instance, as I did with management of all bills and accounts, but with a personal spending account for my brother.
Parents being able to write checks doesn't mean they are capable of handling their money. Are they competent in that way?
If they are, unless your parents gave your sister POA that takes effect immediately, the POA is not in effect and she's stealing from them.
If your parents are not competent, then your sister is violating her fiduciary duty as POA by writing checks to herself and your other sister.
You'd need to know how the POA was written, and I'm not sure you're going to get that information from your sister. What do you parents say?