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if you can get a food pump, that will give you alot of relief. And he can sleep while it’s running, but he must be sitting up at least 35%. A good lounge chair or bed that raises & lowers fixes that problem.
you may need to give his drugs thru the tube, so you will need a pestle & mortar which works the best I have found. Add a small amount of water do you can use a large surynge to put in the tube. Remember on the tube, always turn the wheel or you will end up cleaning up a mess!
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PEG stands for percutaneous endoscopic gastrostomy, a procedure in which a flexible feeding tube is placed through the abdominal wall and into the stomach.
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Nasal-gastric tubes (tube from the nose to the stomach) are usually inserted by a nurse for the purpose of feeding liquid diet and fluids. It requires no incision but may be irritating to the throat and, even if secured by tape, can be pulled out by a less-than-aware or uncomfortable patient. It will probably then be re-inserted. But each re-insertion heightens the possibility of the tube being even more irritating, not well positioned and causing possible respiratory problems.
The PEG tube is inserted by a doctor thorough the abdominal wall and secured by a stitch or two. It is appropriate for longer term use than the NG tube. A quick minor surgery, usually no general anesthesia is required. Once in place, it's not especially uncomfortable for the patient and not easily dislodged ( making it safer than a nasal gastric tube)
I do not think it's "too early", especially if your father is inclined towards seizures.
Also a PEG can be kept in place as the patient recovers. It can be clamped and hidden in the clothing so that it isn't visible even if he is up and about. As a nurse, I once had a elderly patient (not a stroke patient) who loved to dance. On his 100th birthday he danced with his somewhat younger wife (PEG hidden in his underwear) while amazed TV reporters looked on. (He didn't get to eat birthday cake, though)
Seriously my mom had one, it was not like the one you described. Hers was hung up similar to the way IV fluids are hung. If she had wanted to get up and move around she'd have to take the, whole apparatus with her. I thought she would get the other option,portable one, but no.
If I had known that it would have been a NO for it.
I will say, there are problems that we are still dealing with though, the number one problem is aspiration pneumonia! We have stopped all oral intake except small dropperfuls of water occasionally, but she still has a terrible time with swallowing saliva.. The average person swallows once a minute, and we have to encourage her to swallow 5x every 1/2 hour at least! The swallowing is difficult for her, but with ALOT of encouragement from us , it happens.
She can now stand (with assistance) and talk, although volume is still a problem. My father now has his partner back, it is intermittent, because she has vascular dementia also, but without the Peg tube they wouldn’t have celebrated their 65years of marriage in June!
Is it the whole answer, no, but the PEG tube allowed there to be a possibility of improvement, and for my Mom, thank God, there has been improvement.
Good luck to you and your dad with whatever choice you make, everything about this ageing thing is SOOO hard, all we can do is try! Hugs, Graceland!!
Addtionally we have not had any infection problems yet, she has had the Peg for 1yr and 5 months. I clean the stoma daily and new dressing around stoma/tube daily. We just had a new tube placed as the old one began to break down… very easy procedure, no anesthesia, dr just pulled original out and put new one in stoma.
I took the decision not to have it done and moved him to hospice. He died 3 days later. I still think it was the best decision I could have made because it is what he wanted. Before you agree to the procedure consider how invasive it is and the significant impact it will have on his life. If there he won't improve and the only reason for the PEG is to keep him alive, consider if this is the best option for him.
IF there is no chance that he will recover I would not do the feeding tube.
Over the years had your dad ever expressed his thoughts, wishes if something were to happen? Maybe even in an off hand comment about someone he heard or read about. That might give you a clue as to what he would want.
What type of person has he been through is life? Active, independent? would he want to be kept alive via tubes?
Search your heart, your mind. Listen to both, but as difficult as it is, allow your mind to make the tough decisions.
If your dad can communicate with you in any way, then ask him if he wants the PEG tube.
Don't be afraid to stand your ground and ask questions.
With my situation, I've updated with my wishes known with three relatives and had it registered with Kaiser to not prolong my life by machines if full recovery is not expected in one day. That includes feeding tubes.
Peg tube is a good option in the situation where dad can't swallow.. at risk of aspiration..Not too early..your dad can still be regularly assessed for swallowing..
-These are my recommendations:
-Insist that a " girdle" be placed on top/around after to avoid that your dad pulls it ...
- Peg tube are known to get infected, under ,so you 'll have to daily : check ,clean with sterile water,put small dressing around....Nurses should teach you that..
- you'll probably use a "pump" so arrange in advance the space at home and get help..from visiting nurses etc..so you can get respite..
- Important..Important to Flush with water before and after feeding.
All the best for you& dad..
My mom is 78 and after spinal surgery has acute dysphagia as a result with no time frame for resolution. Could be weeks, months or never 😢. After two weeks on TPN she and family made the decision to do a PEG tube. I can't believe that doctor said your dad doesn't "want" to swallow!
Sounds like your dad is relatively young and was OK before for his age. Just like my mom minus the intense spinal pain which was was why she elected surgery, who knew this would be the nightmare outcome.
My mom is now in rehab after a month in the hospital, it's been traumatic, she hates it esp at night and in the morning it's like she's gonna have a nervous breakdown. I suspect hospital delirium.
All of this to say I think pending an uncertain outcome go forward with the feeding tube. Worst case he will swallow in a couple days and it will have been for naught. These decisions are very difficult I'm sorry you are going through this. I know my mom's situation is not an exact parallel as she is able to communicate her wishes and we are certain of her physical prognosis, unlike your dad.
The procedure itself was not terrible for her even after all she has been through, that was our biggest fear another invasive procedure...
Will be thinking of you.
Watch, wait but keep asking questions to the Neuro team.
The speech pathologist should be doing exercises to help strengthen his throat muscles so hopefully he can eat again on his own.
It sounds like the doctor is just writing him off so you will need to continue to be dad's advocate (like you have been doing) and fight for him.
Had his relentless delusion that your mom was having an affair ever resolve?
I understand your distress at the current state of his health. Has a speech language pathologist been by to assess him?
I would ask for a different Hospitalist to be assigned to him. If you get nowhere with asking nicely, call the Patient Advocate and insist.
If only 76 with previously no other serious conditions or life-limiting disease - well it is all going to depend on the severity of the stroke.
Stroke varies considerably. Some are milder & leave little trace. Some leave slurred speech, word finding problems, a weak hand. Some take all speech, bring hemiplegia, mood disorders.
The most severe will cause loss of consciousness with no recovery.
Get as much info on the severity of the stroke. Then wait & hope Dad wakes up I suppose is all you can do.
Has Dad has reached a time when he needs a PEG to reduce malnutrician while you wait?