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So you shouldn't have to be doing anything to help your partner, physically, it's on the SNF to be doing their part. See what the case manager has to tell you and go from there. If you're expected to do all the PT exercises with your partner, then something is wrong somewhere, in my opinion.
Best of luck!
Often folks are overlooked in nursing facilities when it comes to PT, so make sure YOU know what they should be doing so you can help them regain their strength.
It shouldn't be all on you, but sadly that is often the way it goes nowadays.
You can also check with your partners doctor to see how much PT was actually ordered.
I wish you both the best.
In the meantime before the move AND after…
Attend his PT and replicate the therapy when you’re visiting. (If you can attend, you also can help ensure that he’s getting a higher quality session). Make sure to ask the therapist for “homework.” Ensure your partner is following through with that. If he is assigned doing this at least 5x a day, work him up to more.
Demand that his doctor order additional PT and add OT.
Is the dialysis new? He may feel depressed about his change in condition and the food and liquid limitations. Reward him with “non food” treats: massage, magazines, his favorite games, a movie, crafts, come early one day to watch the sun rise, music in his room that he loves, engage in debates which impassion him… of course you can’t change the situation, but give him momentary vacations from thought which may be draining his mood.
Think 5 senses: a soft new blanket, aromatherapy, gentle music, beautiful pictures, something special to taste that he is allowed that won’t harm his new diet.
Visiting a loved one who has experienced a change in ability or mood may also have an impact on you. Make sure to do nice things for yourself to build your mood too. This is hard and don’t overlook your own needs.
it isn't a matter of 'demanding,' it depends on what options are available within the financial and/or health care plan (MediCare? MediCal? personal insurance?)
It is standard (in California, from my experience) that 15 minutes happens after other financial. means are exhausted.
IMPORTANT: The continuation of PT and OT DO depends on if there is improvement as a result of the PT and / or DO. If no improvement shown, these services are not allowed to continue to be paid for by the state / federal government. Even so, if they are allowed, this writer needs to investigate why 15 minutes? These services / amount / are stipulated clearly in government assisted care. If paying out of pocket, it could cost over +$300 an hour.
Person asking question here needs to talk with the institution and perhaps call Medi-Cal or whatever services this person gets to see what is available. Every state may be different in benefits.
As you or someone else suggested, who is the POA ? if there isn't one, it is imperative that this be put in place ASAP.
Out of pocket costs are huge. Everything depends on this person's financial situation. Gena / Touch Matters
If so, then do everything in your power to make it happen - you've gotten good advice already about how to pursue more PT/OT for him.
However. If you're the one who is motivated and he's not as motivated, then all of the PT in the world won't be of any benefit long term.
Another aspect of this situation is realizing that this person cannot walk. Perhaps likely declining. It is important that you emotionally take care of yourself as this person's ability to function declines. Let your sadness (and all emotions) come out. Talk to a professional yourself and/or find support through friends or church, or wherever you find emotional support. This is a sad situation / sad time. Often, due to finances, we (the person managing care / family) cannot do all that we would like to be able to do and need to accept 'what is.' The more you can learn / investigate / education yourself, the more present and emotionally / psychologically available you will be for this person. Take care of yourself.
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Is your partner competent to make informed decisions? If so, he needs a Care meeting and can have you attend it. At this meeting should be the therapist, the DON and the SW at least. Thats where he asks why he is not getting enough therapy to strengthen his legs. Maybe like said, his dialysis weakens him so he can't do dialysis. He has at least 3 sessions of dialysis a week for 6 to 8 hours. Some places may not do therapy on weekends. So there's the two days.
If he is incompetent and ur Medical POA then you ask for a meeting.
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