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They are gruesomely uncomfortable for our entire lives. Now all we are and have is gone and we STILL need to be harnessed into them?
I am 82. I am sorry. I'm with Mom. I am breastless on the right and I have had a lumpectomy that too quite a "bite" on the right. At home I NEVER wear bras now, and I refuse falsies even when out. Someone has something to say? I will just tell them "Sharkbite" with a shrug and get on with my day. I don't care how big-busted we are, at some age no one looks at us anymore ANYWAY.
Love your style!
But for me honestly, I'm more comfortable with a bra, so my opinion may be a bit different than others.
But honestly I need a bit of support. But some may not so I can't stress enough to let your mom wear what's comfortable for her.
I for around the house or if I'm sick, like loss fitting sports bras, actually for comfort, the cheaper the better.
I will also say they make tank like undershirts, I think they are more for the younger generation, that are smaller in size, but they have a small braish shelf like in them that gives some support.
Best of luck
I think it depends on personal preference.
DH aunt took her bra off when she retired in her 50s. She is a petite large breasted woman all about comfort. She wore men’s undershirts under cotton button down 3/4 sleeve blouses or pjs. Still does. Always with the undershirts. I tried camisoles, tank tops but the men’s undershirts were best and in a larger size than her blouses. Aunt wouldn’t wear any type of pullover shirt/sweater but didn’t mind the pull over undershirts possibly due to the deep neckline.
If I don’t wear a bra I suffer from back pain so I can understand going braless might not be an option for everyone.
My mom always wanted a bra.
Like your mom, at a certain point it was just too difficult. Because her finger tips were numb, she couldn’t manage buttons so preferred a pull over thicker cotton knit fabric. Some of her dressier outfits would include an open blouse/jacket. She liked jackets with pockets for her hanky/kleenex or readers. Lined blouses were an option she enjoyed. She wouldn’t wear the men’s undershirts. She had a fashion sense well into her 90s and knew she would look better in a bra but after a while was willing to let it go. Partially I think because she saw that we just couldn’t fit her properly.
Or get her some tank tops to wear under her shirts. Or spandex camisole undershirts which offer some support.
There are options. What is she most comfortable with?
Years ago, I used to take care of an old lady who wore a corset every day. She would not go without it. She had been wearing one since she was a young woman and couldn't go without it. So I laced her up into her corset every morning.