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I know this then presents a slipping issue, but so does walking through a puddle of urine.
How often is he up? You probably don't wake up when he does, and you'd be exhausted trying to 'catch him' in the act.
I'm glad I insisted on my TALL 6'5" Dh sit to pee. The splashback is pretty incredible. I also made my son sit. I'm hoping if DH becomes 'dotty' he'll still sit down.
You really need to think about that. And yes, I've taken care of a stroke patient at home. They can be unreasonable, and that doesn't usually improve.
You might ask his doctor about meds to calm his mind. If husband refuses, refuses, refuses things that would help you to care for him, that's a symptom his doctor might be able to address.
And when my husband got real bad I gave him NO choice but to have to sit down when he was peeing as I was beyond tired of cleaning up every time he went pee which was about every hour on the hour. Yes I had to get a bit ugly with him, but he knew I meant business as it was I cleaning up the mess and not him. He eventually got used to it.
And eventually he did end up getting a supra pubic(permanent)catheter put in which was a Godsend for us both, as we could finally sleep through the whole night without getting up and I only had to empty his catheter bag twice a day.
You can talk to his urologist to discuss catheter options for your husband, as this issue will only get worse.