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2) As others noted, a legitimate expense like supplemental insurance would likely be allowed.
Your description of your grandmother's condition doesn't necessarily lend itself, yet, to requiring NH care. Usually one needs to require specialized nursing care to qualify, especially when using Medicaid. She could recover sufficiently to be released to home care. If you jump the gun and cancel, it could end up MORE expensive for her.
My mother tore her rotator cuff when she was in her 80s. She had the surgery done, did well with home PT and managed to live alone in her own place for many more years. She, like your grandmother, had many of the same "issues" (age-related decline, arthritis, osteoporosis, and urinary tract infection.) In addition, she had significant hearing loss, Mac Degeneration and bad knees.
Even after developing dementia, she would NOT have been a NH candidate. We probably could have gotten her into one, as self-paying clients, but NHs are MUCH more expensive than AL or MC. Thankfully she had SS plus a good pension left from my dad, some other funds and the net from the sale of her condo to pay for a good MC place and also cover all her other needs.
I do agree, the BCBS plan she had was very expensive (Fed plan), however I kept it as it covered so much more than others. Just the cost of Mac Degeneration treatments made it worth keeping! She used to use ambulance transport for UTIs (I chastised her for this as it takes services away from others who need it, but her response was that her insurance pays for it, which it did, mostly.) She had stopped driving at night, but could have gone to her doc during the day, instead of tying up an ambulance and then spending HOURS in the ER for this!
Once she went onto hospice, following the first stroke, I made the decision to drop it for next year. The eye treatments were long and taxing on her, so I stopped those. Hospice wouldn't cover her regular meds, so I made sure to order what might be needed to cover the next few months, after checking online to see how much they would cost buying them elsewhere and it was MUCH less than the cost of the insurance! We wouldn't be doing any major life-saving treatments at that time, so there was no justification for continuing the insurance at that cost. She was over 97 then. I didn't even get to fill out the form they sent to me to cancel it. She had a second stroke and passed before the end of the year.
Your grandmother, on the other hand, could live for many more years and require treatments for who knows what. Medicare and Medicaid don't cover everything. Once on hospice, if it went that far with your grandmother, they don't cover anything other than comfort care, except maybe UTI or other infections, simple stuff. If she gets any treatments or medications now, you'd have to weigh the cost of the insurance vs anything that might happen after canceling it. Those would be self-pay. Once canceled, she wouldn't likely be able to get on that plan again, and have to sign up for something with less coverage.
Also, not familiar with this plan. Premium costs plus deductibles, co-pays and out of pocket expenses would all have to be considered. Mom's plan was federal and expensive, but covered just about anything you could think of! I don't recall ever paying anything other than a couple hundred for several months of PT while in MC.
Some nursing homes, such as county-run ones, will accept Medicaid-only paying patients, but many private ones will not. Either families, or their remaining assets, are expected to make up the difference.
Is the Blue Cross through her former employer - or is it a Medicare Advantage Plan or Medicare Supplement Plan?
Don't drop the Medicare Advantage/Supplement just yet - because you could be paying huge out-of-pocket expenses if you do this.
Use the spend-down money to pay for the supplement until she qualifies for Medicaid.
I would also check with all her Insurance Co.
Don't be in a hurry as you might cancel it and she'll end up in a terrible place.
You said you needed to downsize the amount of money in her Bank account, I suggest you do this while paying her Insurance.
"I am caring for my grandmother mary, who is 87 years old with age-related decline, arthritis, osteoporosis, and urinary tract infection."
So, are you 65 and grandmother is 87? Makes a difference in the answers to your question. Thanks!
Someone will pipe up with more info.