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The other question I have is whether your husband served in the military during a period of active war. If so, he'd likely qualify for Aid & Attendance once the personal funds have been depleted.
As for finding a suitable place, I'd highly recommend talking with someone from your local Area Agency on Aging to find out what your options are, or even checking with one of the commercial outfits that get commissions from the assisted living places. The person they'll connect you to is often a knowledgable local.
Finally, I'm concerned for your own welfare. Have you tried calling the Alzheimer's Association to talk to a counselor when you're feeling frustrated? Are you attending any kind of support group for caregiving spouses? It's very helpful to be able to reflect with others going through the same thing.
Hang in there -- there are ways to make this work!
My Dad's rent was set in stone for one year, in fact he got a discount because it was December just after Christmas and the unit was sitting vacant.... but eventually I needed to add extra services, like pill management, and night service which helps Dad get ready for bed.
My parents had saved big time for "rainy days" and now it is storming out there. Dad [94] was shocked at the cost of living while elderly. I tried to have around the clock caregivers at his home [after my Mom was placed in long-term-care] and that was costing Dad $20k per month not including the cost of maintaining his house.
Dad decided after my Mom had passed to move to senior living as he could no longer do stairs. Doing that cut the cost in half, but it was still very expensive. My parents house has sold so the equity will help in future costs.
Grammy, maybe your husband could qualify for Medicaid. Medicaid would pay for nursing home care if your husband is at that level. Each State has their own programs. It is worth checking it out.
I cut my dentist bills by swishing my mouth with coconut oil a few times a week, brushing with ORA D peppermint oil, and using a Sonic Care electric toothbrush, and yes, flossing. Deep pockets that I had last year were reduced by half! I never use drugs, don't smoke or drink alcohol.