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Carol
At the 10,000 foot level there are really only two programs that may help you. Many states now have a Medicaid Waiver program called "Cash and Counseling" or some variant thereof. When participating in this program the recipient is given more direct control in obtaining services and may, in fact, include payment to a family member as part of their care plan. As Carol suggested, your state's equivalent of Department of Elder Affairs will have information.
The other program that may be of help will only apply if grandmother or her spouse was a veteran. The VA Aid and Attendance Improved Pension will provide cash payment directly to grandmother. With this payment she is free to hire anyone, including a family member for her care.
Lastly, and again as Carol mentioned, local resources can be extremely important. Keep this in mind: it may be possible to replace services you are now spending grandmother's money on with other services that are lower cost or free. Saving cash means more money available for other things like possibly compensating you at least to some degree.
For example, will she qualify for meals on wheels? Does she receive help for her Part B premium (that would save $96.50 per month) is she receiving extra help for prescription drugs (this could potentially save hundreds per month), should she apply for home based Medicaid services which would provide some home care to provide respite for you or give you time to find employment for a few hours per week.
Caring for a loved one in difficult financial circumstances requires creativity and ingenuity. I would also suggest joining a caregiver support group either locally or on line. You will be surprised what you will learn and how common your experience is.
It could be your dad doesn't make enough even with the VA help to file, but you may want to get an opinion on that. I am a fan of having a CPA sign off on all but the most simple tax forms.
Carol
Best of luck,
Emily Schwarz
Veterans Financial, Inc.
If, however, he is paying YOU to care for him that is a different matter. If the child or other person only provides caregiving services to the parent or to one person only, and does not provide such services to others, they are considered an employee of the care receiver, not an independent contractor.
As such, the caregiver and the care receiver must pay relevant FICA, FUTA, and income taxes. Its really not that complicated. Go to IRS.gov and all of the relevant forms, instructions are there.
Of course, H&R Block or the equivalent for $75 is not a bad deal for headache prevention.
Carol
Respectfully, I must disagree with Emily's assertion that it is "illegal" to charge a veteran for counsel, advice, or recommendations about obtaining Aid and Attendance Improved Pension benefits or, for that matter, any VA benefit.
While it is true that it illegal to charge a veteran for the physical completion and filing of an application for VA compensation and pension (the "preparation and prosecution" of a claim) before initial denial of that claim, it is perfectly legal, and in fact the VA sanctions, charging for services that include the pre-filing "...review of records, research, and counseling that a potential VA claimant might need."
With respect to charging for the actual completion of the application and the filing of same, the VA states very clearly that charging for the services mentioned above and then preparing and filing the claim on a pro bono basis is perfectly legal and legitimate.
Some feel this is a "gray" area but nothing could be further from the truth...which happens to be that the Chief Counsel of the VA has ruled on this and the facts are as I have stated above.
This may seem like a small distinction but it is a huge one when one considers that a great majority of those offering "free" VA pension assistance are being compensated by providers (such as home health care agencies and assisted living facilities) who ultimately charge the client (with or without disclosure) or, are insurance agents who will only be paid by commission if they sell the veteran or tier family a financial product.
No judgment as to which model is preferable, but those who need advice on these matters should know that fee based consulting is a legal, very viable option and may be less expensive, and perhaps more effective, in a given circumstance (particularly where Medicaid, VA, and personal resources will be combined to provide funding for a continuum of care).