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My guess would be that she was finding it too difficult to meet her working hours, made a mess of it, and then was too embarrassed to explain and found it less awkward just to run away and hide. Not a very mature way to go about things but I've known people do stupider.
Can people please not make assumptions about the thieving propensities of workers in proportion to their pay grade? I can't help but find it insulting both on my own behalf and that of my co-workers. I am in a minimum wage social care job. Nobody who cares about the job is in it for the money.
I would also contact and place a review and a complaint.
There’s a lot of assumptions and false stereotypes made about the aide, socioeconomic class and so on
Why would your aunt assume she stole something when as you explained there was no basis for this—-she doesn’t sound like a very nice person
You also say the aide is from a ‘rich area’ - what does this have to do w anything? You made a comment implying it’s strange that a well off person would be a caregiver. Are you saying only poor or disadvantaged people find caregiving meaningful? By the way just bc someone lives in a certain area it doesn’t automatically mean they themselves have the same amount of wealth or lack of wealth. A wealthy person could live with someone else in a middle class area and vice versa- a person without much money could live with someone else in a nicer area. Or many variations in between
Your aunt doesn’t sound like a very nice person to assume the reason she left is bc she stole something. I’m inclined to think your aunt made some negative or presumptuous comments to her along the way and she grew increasingly uncomfortable and finally stopped coming altogether
Edit to add— after I posted this I read below the update and can say with confidence your aunt sounds like a piece of work - I believe she is a dishonest person herself who it sounds like wasn’t paying the caregiver and projected that onto the caregiver claiming she must have stolen something - as pretty much every single person here has said it’s wrong of your aunt to make a baseless assumption such as this. I feel like your aunt was mean to her and was pushing her around not paying her etc and the aide got increasingly uncomfortable ( you said she started coming less and then stopped coming altogether) bc of how she was being treated.
Have you asked to have your aunt verify to you that the home health aide was paid in full? If not- why? The aide told you she wasn’t paid- and asked you to assist her in being paid, your responsible to ensure the caregiver has been paid
I wouldn't think theft either.
After *over* a month of no communication, the aide finally called me back: "Ohhh, I've been trying to get in contact with your aunt. Something happened with my daughter. I haven't been working much. Your aunt owes me money."
First of all, she's full of it. She could have called me if she couldn't get through to my aunt and contact would have been made, so that's bs. And second, we caught her- we used a friend's phone to text her asking about her availability as an aide for the times we would have had her scheduled and sure enough she was available to work! Liar, liar, pants on fire.
So I was right- she didn't steal from us. She found something else, and is now calling to collect what we owe her. Sorry lady, you gotta go a long way to pull the wool over our eyes. I may be young, but I'm not stupid.
Actually first thing is to check all credit cards, make sure not unauthorized purchases were made. Freeze accounts. Check credit reports from each of the reporting companies.
And you should also report her earnings to IRS. Send her a statement so she can report her earnings when she files her taxes.
Yes I have had a caregiver that stole from me. She stole things, not credit cards or information but she took money, jewelry, food, toilet paper.....
I did file a report, she did have to appear in court.
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If the caregiver is owed money she must be paid.
How would you like to go to work and not get paid for all the hours you put in.
If this caregiver were to post and comment on what happened what would their story read like.? Would we be telling her to contact the state labor board? A lawyer? Would I or anyone else suggest that she contact and report that she has not been paid in full and that the contact person is difficult to get a hold of?
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