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He probably wants to check for any changes and/or deterioration, which may or may not affect the prescription he writes.
Someone's eyesight is worth making a few sacrifices. Is there any reason why the appointment couldn't be in the afternoon?
He only does morning hours now for seeing patients, and at his farthest location (from us). He used to do afternoon hours and also see patients at a closer location to us.
It sounds as though he may be heading toward retirement if he's cutting back his hours, unless he's teaching or involved in some other medical activity.
As for insisting on an office visit to renew prescriptions, I think a lot of that has to do with their ability to bill for a visit vs just ordering a script. My mom's doc was forever dragging her heels renewing prescriptions until I stated making appointments to come in and see her myself and get the renewal as a 'consult'.
As for refilling prescriptions, that is common in my area no matter who is the doctor that you need to see the doctor at least once a year, otherwise the prescription might not be filled.....
One's medication from a variety of doctors can change during the year. And if the patient isn't using one pharmacy it is difficult for that pharmacy to know about everything that patient is taking. At least with a yearly or twice a year visit, the doctors can catch up on the medication list, and spot what might be a dangerous mix.
I had requested the doctor to call me himself. Instead, a young fella from the doctor's "team" returned my call. I asked him, what if Mom was bedridden and could not actually even come in for an appointment, and he said "Well, you'd have to find an eye doctor who makes house calls, then." He also brought up the idea that we could maybe get the prescriptions from Canada. I didn't say anything to that because I knew nothing about the subject, but upon doing some reading I think it was a pretty irresponsible thing for him to say, since obtaining some prescriptions from other countries is illegal and since even so Mom would need a prescription from her eye doctor, which they are not willing to provide in the first place without seeing her.
There is a slightly closer eye doctor with whom we may be able to get an afternoon appointment, will check that out tomorrow and see if Mom is willing to change doctors.
For the patient and family (caregivers), having to organize appointments around everything else that happens in life is hard. Then there is the financial aspects of the cost of meds, doctors office co-payments and insurance premiums as well as the possible loss of time at work for those involved. Plus there is the lack of control; we often feel that everyone else has more control over our lives and our time than we do. So many people telling us what we must do!! Gets very, very frustrating and I totally understand!!
As far as the doctor is concerned, he has a practice to run. Staff to pay, electricity, phone, internet, and all other expenses associated with a medical practice. And yes, he needs patients to come in so that he can earn the money he needs to pay those bills. Some doctors (sorry to say) are all about the money. But many are just trying to do the right thing. Just because someone has been on the same med for a long time doesn't mean that their overall health is the same or that the medication is still the correct one. If they give a loved one the wrong medication, some people will sue. If they don't require enough supervision, some people will sue. If there is an unexpected medication reaction, some people will sue. They often have to demand these follow-ups just to ensure that they have made the correct choice for this particular patient.
In conclusion: Assume he has your mothers best interest at heart. See your physicians as requested. If the office hours don't match your needs or personalities just conflict then seek the care of another qualified individual. Best wishes.
For the patient and family (caregivers), having to organize appointments around everything else that happens in life is hard. Then there is the financial aspects of the cost of meds, doctors office co-payments and insurance premiums as well as the possible loss of time at work for those involved. Plus there is the lack of control; we often feel that everyone else has more control over our lives and our time than we do. So many people telling us what we must do!! Gets very, very frustrating and I totally understand!!
As far as the doctor is concerned, he has a practice to run. Staff to pay, electricity, phone, internet, and all other expenses associated with a medical practice. And yes, he needs patients to come in so that he can earn the money he needs to pay those bills. Some doctors (sorry to say) are all about the money. But many are just trying to do the right thing. Just because someone has been on the same med for a long time doesn't mean that their overall health is the same or that the medication is still the correct one. If they give a loved one the wrong medication, some people will sue. If they don't require enough supervision, some people will sue. If there is an unexpected medication reaction, some people will sue. They often have to demand these follow-ups just to ensure that they have made the correct choice for this particular patient.
In conclusion: Assume he has your mothers best interest at heart. See your physicians as requested. If the office hours don't match your needs or personalities just conflict then seek the care of another qualified individual. Best wishes.