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What's going on in your situation? What's mom's illness? Are you living in the same house with your parents? What's dad's problem that makes him so overbearing?
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If you're OK with providing care for her, find a way to nicely ask him to find something else to do while you're there. Or you find him something to do to get him out of your hair.
I've been caring for mom since February of this year.
Did your folks invite you to stay, move in & get involved in their day to day life?
If they need assistance, are their other solutions?
You may have to do what so many of us here had to do..... when there is a medical emergency, call 911, hospital stay, rehab stay, and then placement in a senior facility.
I would not scream at him and probably would not speak nicely too him. I would raise my voice and be blunt and say "Dad I do what I do for a living. I have had no complaints until now. If you think you can do a better job of caring for Mom than I'll leave you to it. You can cook, bathe her, dress her, and help her toilet because...you feel u can do a much better job." Then walk out. Maybe first whisper to Mom that u really will not leave her alone.
Him being scared does not give him the right to be this way with the one person who is helping. He needs to be shown what it would be like without daughter there to help. Its also not fair to his wife to act this way. If this is new behaviour on his part, he needs a good checkup.