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If there is family they WILL find you! In my state of MA the state pays a small amount to funeral home for burial.. The funeral home has to absorb the rest.. It can be difficult for the coroner to find a funeral home willing to take body.. Eventually one if found and the body is buried with small marker.. Massachusetts will not cremate a body without a family member signing, so that makes in more expensive for the funeral home.
Everyone gets buried eventually...
My mom got a prearranged funeral when she was widowed and had to sell the family home, and I did it when I was widowed at about the same age and got a life insurance payout. I also, when I sold my home, started paying for long term health care insurance so my kids won't have to help finance my care and my daughter won't have to drive 300 miles to make sure I have the care. Hopefully husband and I will be able to help each other get the care when needed. He also has that insurance. I can't tell you the peace of mind it gives us! I have a son who lives near and my kids are all my hubby has too, but thankfully they both love him and would help him all they could, within reason, should I die first.
I wonder about people who do NOTHING, as they see later years approaching and don't have some plan in place. Makes me think they didn't think much of themselves, and certainly no concern for those who would have to deal with their death when it happens. But I have sympathy for people with no family or caring friends, unless it is their choice to die that way. Life is like a maze, you see something puzzling at every turn.
States assume what's left will either be liquidated to pay for Care, or to pay for disposing of remains, or distributed to next of kin.
State is first-in-line after the Feds, for repayment, if there's any assets left at death.
State or family can opt to have a pauper's burial of whole remains,
OR, a low-cost cremation.
OR, the body might be donated to a service that harvests tissues....those do the whole process for free--body pick-up, disbursal of tissues for researches, then they cremate remains---they will then either return the cremains to the family, or, they will deal with the cremains.
We located a very low-cost Cremation service, several years ago: "American Burial and Cremation", that only charged about $700, which was a chunk less than any other cremation service--but that company is a fly-by-night too--sometimes they are not in business, other times they are in business--we got lucky!
Mom chose to donate her body for science research; we found a company located in Portland, Oregon. Documents needed signed/ notarized by the person or their POA. The company contracts with a local mortuary to pick up the body and transport. They have a weight limit: 250 lbs., and this company covers/services most of the Western States.
States may or not, connect with companies like this to take care of pauper's remains.
Some, if not all, States will go to great lengths to collect on debts to the State. For instance, CA has been known to attach a senior citizen's SSI check even though that check was only a few hundred dollars per month---CA was after him for non-payment of child support from over 40 years prior--took them decades to locate him in WA. CA also tried to attach his current spouses' SSI check--they wanted it all as fast as they could get it. CA is allowed to attach all sources of income to the maximum available, and, allows ALL collectors to come at a person simultaneously.
CA's attachment meant that his medical care became a problem for WA State; WA State then also tried to come after his now-widow's SSI, though she was able to negotiate small payments, and finally got it dismissed, since she had not been married to him until decades after that debt happened, and in another State.
IF an elder Dies with nothing, and the widow[er] receives some later inheritance they'd not known about, the State may attach that:
We got notification that Mom's last spouse had bought a small policy when he was young; Mom becomes the beneficiary as his remaining heir...AFTER the State he died in, collects whatever they have owing on his account.
IF he collected any welfare while in another State, they also can come after that inheritance.
There's another small policy, but trying to collect anything from that is a problem: he bought that one when he was 40 y.o., paid on it awhile, then lost paperwork, may have stopped paying on it.
I just learned that ALL insurance companies pay into a pool to cover "lost" or "dropped" policies.
Hoards of fly-by-night insurance/assurance companies, regularly get bought out by others, but policies get lost in the shuffle. This one has morphed through several companies, getting essentially lost in the shuffle. Most companies contacted so far, claim that number doesn't exist in their files.
Having paperwork to prove the policy, is helpful.
AND, while companies often try to wiggle out of it, they MUST pay on those claims, as long as paperwork proves policy, they must do due diligence to find the lost policy, and pay on it, if it had been paid on at all.
EVEN IF they can't find traces of it, and a holder shows paperwork, the Pool must pay on it....but Insurance co's will go to great lengths to avoid paying, usually--including telling people "that policy is defunct, no longer valid".
But, this person said, IF the policy was paid into, there is money in the Pool to cover it, so keep pressing for it to be paid out.
...and either or both of two States may yet pop out of the landscape to collect those inheritances before Mom sees a dime.
She's now in a third State, living on her tiny SSI; pretty sure she will welcome the small sum, IF it works out. Though I'm surprised CA hasn't come after Mom for repayment of welfare provided several decades back...that could still happen, if the first example is any example.
There are cheap cremation services, if you get lucky and can find them.
Other cremation is spendy...price depends on how well the funeral association in a State has locked up the business in their favor.
Spreading ashes on parents graves?
Better learn for certain, in writing, whether the Cemetery allows that.
Cremains take up a substantial amount of space, so spreading cremains for even one person, on a single grave, will LOOK like cremains--a lot of dust.
Cemeteries around here have even Approved, then after-the-fact of a person being buried in a pre-paid grave, DIS-approved of a headstone that was higher than the grass grew...they'd changed their policies....the woman who bought her mom's headstone for her mom, now has it parked along a main road, on her own driveway-- lots of traffic--every day for several years now, anyone passing by knows what jerks the cemetery became.
So make sure you get permission in writing, for spreading ashes anywhere a permit might be needed.
Scattering in wild spaces is usually no problem--as long as cremains go through a crusher, to prevent identifiable bone bits being found anywhere. Most crematoriums automatically do that--but it's a good policy to check in advance, to make certain they do.
I have never heard of the first $100,000. being waive without a Will. An asset, is an asset, is an asset. Even dispersering ones personal belongings should be addressed.
It is Federal Law that Social Security benefits, SSI payments, cannot be garnished by any creditor. If an overpayment of benefits, child support, owe federal taxes (15% can be taken) or federal student loan or agency they can attach funds over $750.00. If government check is deposited in an account that other funds are deposited in then that account could be seized. Keep the accounts separate.
If a person receives monies from Medicaid that state has a right to recoup their money after the person dies. It's only fair. I often hear, let the state pay for their nursing home care, well you and I are paying for that care to a tune of about $8,000.00 or more a month per person.
The trend now is to keep people out of the nursing homes and in the community where individuals are happier and it's cheaper. All part of the Affordable Health Care Act-Community First Choice (persons with disabilities) & Community Option (Long term care).