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This was a result of blood poisoning and a red line up the leg
Also, gynecologist recommended a probiotic call Rephresh ( something abot pH in the vagina).
Oh darn! 2009? 2014?
How did I get here by mistake in 2016???
Surely hope the patients mentioned don't still have a UTI or yeast infection after all these years.
Expletive expressions of frustration for wasting my time.
Sadhusband, your wife most likely has a yeast infection. The odor may be a bit of a sweet smell, there may be a white or yellow discharge, there may be an appearance similar to cottage cheese appearing just inside the labia/vagina, there may be itching, and a tinge of blood. And, there are behavior changes with a yeast infection. Have her see a doctor before attempting to treat this at home. Over the counter yeast treatments can be used. Ask her pharmacist.
No ideas for you if you cannot talk to her about it. However, a gynecologist often "wants to see their patient" for routine exams, even after a hysterrectomy or becoming elderly.
Was wondering last week why no one ever mentions this secondary yeast infection. Hope my response was not TMI or too clinical.
Offering my disclaimer now, and if I am wrong, my apologies. I defer to the doctors, but if I had answered the phone for the doctor's office, I would have given the patient an appointment right away or the next day.
There was a flurry of medical articles a while back about overdiagnosis of uti's in older people, and ineffectual treatment of same. The concerns are a) not treating patients effectively and b) antibiotic resistance. So there will be a current crop of doctors actively trying to avoid reaching for the px pad at the drop of a hat, which is actually good practice - many many antibiotic prescriptions for uti's prove to be a complete waste of time, money and unpleasant side effects (often leading to reinfection, ironically) for the patient. But that is *no* excuse for failing to investigate, and no excuse for not dealing courteously with your concern for your sister.
Try not to get upset with your sister's doctor. Try not to be upset with him even if he is being rude and apparently idle. He was probably angry in part because he is anxious that he ought to have checked her out three weeks ago and worried he could have got it wrong. Or he might just be annoyed at your persistence, but without having the good sense or patience to explain his thinking to you.
The thing is, if it's a low grade chronic infection it could quite easily grumble on in the background, not doing much - but your problem there is that these are very hard to get rid of completely. The sort of infection the doctor is talking about is much more aggressive and would have snaked up to her kidneys by now, making her yes very ill, perhaps that's what he was getting at. I suspect you're talking at cross purposes, about different types of illness, to some extent.
In my mom's nh, any time she shows behavioral changes, they check for a uti.
would be very sick today. Is that correct or could she go 3 weeks with no other obvious sign other than the confusion?
She definitely needs a physical exam. It's generally easier to convince someone to see a doctor for a physical problem than a mental or cognitive one. Could you convince her to see a doctor about an antibiotic for a common urinary infection if you avoid mentioning her temper or accusations? If she will go, then you could contact the doctor's office ahead of time and let them know that you suspect dementia (if that's the case).
You definitely need to do something here, for your sake if not hers. Do you two have children? Close friends? Someone who can talk your wife into a simple urinalysis?
If she does have a UTI and nothing is done, she is likely to develop worse symptoms and may need to go to the ER as these can travel to the kidneys. Do your best to get her help. If she won't budge, watch for signs that she's spiking a fever or having kidney pain. I hope you don't have to wait for that. Do try to get someone else in to help you convince her to see a doctor.
Good luck. Please check back and let us know how you're doing.
Carol
I am afraid to tell her ( she has a very short tempter and is very irritable and sometimes seems to act like she is having her period ( she is 71 so that is not the reason for that ) If I do it will start an argument. I am between a rock and a hard place
She accuses me of doing things I don't do and is always looking to start a fight
These and the coughing should be looked at by a doctor. Asthma and other lung diseases can cause coughing and can be treated. She may need a chest x-ray.
It sound like it's time for another trip to the doctor.
Take care,
Carol