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Does he have a spouse and family? If so, they are suffering and he is struggling to keep them the priority. Do you and your other brother have spouses and families? If so, they are your priorities, not your parents. This is what they saved their money for, to pay for their care and NOT to burn out their children. And none of you should be paying for any of their care out of your own pockets.
I wish you well in getting your parents into a facility. You've all done yeoman's work -- bless you for doing so.
Facility to facility transfers are the most easily accomplished. Is rehab helping with finding a LTC facility for dad?
You say you and the other brother are helping but then in the next paragraph it is clear that brother is the one doing most of the overnights since the middle of February, plus he works a job and is elderly himself.
What would happen if brother died tomorrow? How would you and other sibling take care of mom? I can bet mom would be moved faster into a SNF if this happened, so get it done now. I don't think your brother can handle another few weeks of this or longer.
If you are waiting on mom to be approved for medicaid before finding a skilled nursing facility for her you don't need to. Many facilities have medicaid pending and will accept a person before all the paper work is officially approved and done.
You and siblings are doing the best anyone could, but this has to end before one or all of you have strokes. Then what?
Hurry and file that application for dad. Be the squeaky wheel that gets attention from wherever you've filed. Don't just wait. Call every day. Send emails, visit their office, whatever you have to do to expedite the matter.
Also, maybe you shouldn't be the referee. How'd you get that job? Why do you do it? Your time could be better spent finding more helpers and hiring them.
I hope you get this concluded soon and can go back to normal life.