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And I reciprocate that love to her.
It has to come from within and it is a choice.
I choose to be happy despite all the many negative things that have happened to me over my life,(and trust me when I tell you there's been a lot of negative things,) but I am blessed that the Good Lord has given me a positive attitude, and that goes a long way in keeping me happy. Plus the good in my life(and all of our lives)will always outweigh the bad.
I also choose to write in my "grateful" notebook every evening 5 things from the day that I am grateful for. That certainly helps keep things in perspective for me as gratitude and happiness go hand in hand.
So be blessed everyone and choose today despite your circumstances to be happy!
What is happiness to you??
Make a list of things that make you happy.
Make a list of things you do every day.
Compare the lists.
My solid answer:
Happiness is walking on a beach of Puget Sound looking at rocks and driftwood, watching the birds soar, seeing the dogs run in the water.
Tired of that? I can do the walk in the woods.
And those answers, getting out in nature and walking with a mindful soul would have sufficed as well at 8 as at 80 for me.
Buffalo hot wings fit in there somewhere as well. I am easy.
I'm sure your cats are thanking you!
Happiness is
...getting the shower temperature right the first time.
Happiness is
...when your neighbour's wifi is not password protected.
Someone said I should keep a journal. I tried writing things in a notebook but it made me cry. Letting go of feelings is difficult for me.
Happiness is
...finally letting go of something.
Happiness is
...when your shampoo & conditioner finish together.
I am happy that I am safe, sheltered, fed, financially stable and loved.
Happiness is
...getting pictures of ducklings from friends.
Oh, and the 80lb dog is on your legs, so you're well and truly trapped.
Enjoying the tender mercies of a day and acknowledging the blessings you have.
Happiness is
...a laughter attack for no reason.
Happiness is
...accidentally getting a recipe right.
Happiness is
...standing up for what is right.
Happiness is
...being appreciated.
Happiness is being able to see so many good things among the not so good.
Happiness is
...taking control of your own happiness.
Happiness is
...making peace with your past so it won't mess up your present.
Happiness is being content and envious of no one.
I loved the comments from others about being out in nature or trapped in a chair w sleeping kids and a dog!
It also depends upon what stage of life you’re in. Things that were important to me in my youth don’t matter at all to me today.
Ask a 21 year old what happiness means and then ask a 67 year old like myself what happiness means and I guarantee that you’ll get two entirely different answers.
Anyway, I would say that there is a major difference in having inner joy and being happy. I would rather have joy in my life. Joy is a choice that a person makes rather than chasing after happiness. Happiness is temporary. Inner joy is everlasting contentment.
@Hopeforhelp22, you're right I should answer the post too and it is a deep question. To be honest I'm still searching, ever searching..
When I was younger, early 20's, to mid-30's. I had a plan for what I thought would be happiness for me. I'm well beyond the 5-0 now. Lots of clichés come to mind, ship has sailed, missed the boat, and so on. This was my kind of a idealistic view on happiness then and I guess it still is.
A deep question, deserves a deep answer.
It all begins with finding a mutual loving partner, a life partner, that understood me completely and I understood them and I don't mean completing each other's sentences. To have children and bring them up to be kind and be compassionate people.
Didn't care about the big house, big car all other material things, I always seemed to know that would never bring happiness,
To live as one with nature as possible, have the simple things in life in a kind off-grid way with some home comforts :) I wouldn't call it living like a Hippie, but I'm one that definitely thinks that systems and money are at the center of a lot of unhappiness and go against nature. I think currently we live in world where you need money to get away from the systems, get freer from the systems, to give us a sense of joy.
and finally I would try to bring happiness to all people I encounter. Try to see what gives them joy and bring them more of it; as if my happiness would rub off on them, and they subsequently pass it on to others.
Btw, a loving partner does not imply to depend on for happiness, but to be a passenger beside me in this fleeting journey on this planet, sharing whatever problems life throws back at you along the way. By loving partner I mean loving without the images people create for one another.
Screeeeeeeeeeeeech....Grinding Halt.... it didn't happen. :)
I guess that's why now, I have moments of happiness rather than have enduring happiness. It was the enduring happiness I strived for, because I believe it to be the natural way for human beings to live on this planet.