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The sight of those two eating contently was both joyful and heartbreaking. They needed to be in assisted living but wouldn’t hear of it. But I’d sit back, sneakily fix a cocktail for myself and enjoy watching them in their happy place.
My mom is 95 with Alzheimer's and I'm still mostly doing "window visits."
Whenever, I'm getting ready to leave, I tell her to hang up the phone so I know it gets seated properly instead of being partially off the hook. When she's done I give her the "thumbs up" sign and she gives me one back along with blowing a kiss. It always makes me walk away smiling in spite of the long, hard journey.
The first time my father was in rehab for 2 months following hospital stay was the most content and stress-free I had ever seen my mom. The rehab said he needed to step up to AL so I moved them and Mom was declining cognitively so they went together. The AL had an excellent license that LTC insurance covered (thank goodness). Instead of getting them a 2 bedroom apartment, I got them each their own efficiency suite, not only so she would have some relief and privacy, but I also figured whoever went first I wouldn't have to move the other one yet again. In those last few months, Mom told me repeatedly that it was the best idea I ever had, so whenever she got tired of his complaining and shenanigans she could lock her door and get some peace and quiet from him. She also told me often how grateful she was for everything I did for them. (My father never even asked how I was, much less said thank you,) I really wanted her golden years to be content and free of him but it was not to be. Unfortunately, she died at age 89 one month after their 64th anniversary, massive combination stroke. Doctors even said her heart condition was most likely caused by years of stress. The old man lasted another 17 months in AL until age 96. We never expected him to live past 80 when half his lung was removed, never mind outliving Mom. He almost succeeded in killing me as well. But I'm still here and recovering. 2020 was a piece of cake compared to the previous 10 years. I know Mom loved me and I heard from a couple people that my father was proud of the fact that I served 12 years in the Navy; he just never told ME that. (He was a WWII hero in his country.) Their ashes are scattered on a mountain overlooking a valley in the Catskills where they lived for 50 years.
2. Taking my mother to different social events in her town.
3. Taking my mother's homemade fudge to everyone in her town.
4. Visiting my mother's 102 year old friend, who lived across the road from her. I also took plates of homemade pies and pastries and also dinners to this lady, who was also legally blind like my mother and also lived alone like my mother.
5. Witnessing one tear come down my mother's face after she was non verbal, eyes closed.