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All of my dreams are and I consider them messages, interpretations of my feelings and etc. I often can interpret them best by simply repeating them to myself and key words will "pop" for me.
I dream of my brother often, and we are often doing things we loved to do together, exploring junk shops and antique malls. Sometimes we are exploring strange and new, almost alien cities (we are in new worlds) and sometimes a bit worried, more often peaceful and certain of ourselves in a way our anxiety complexes didn't always allow in life.
I love dreams. I can ask for "message dreams" and get them; I do that seldom as they can be a bit profound and scary in that.
One was of a lifelong friend who had passed within the past year. We had occasionally talked about what happens to us after death, but in the dream, we were both very alive and enjoying a walk along a road. For some reason I felt compelled to look over my left shoulder. I saw a field of beautiful yellow flowers, and when I looked back at my friend, he'd disappeared. In the distance I could see a major highway with travelers on it, and I believed he'd reached there and was going with them.
A few months later, I went to my MIL's grave to see the new headstone. As I stood there, I again felt compelled to look over my left shoulder. There was a similar field of yellow flowers, much like the one I'd seen in my dream, but this one was real.
My mom, I dreamt that I was standing outside her facility and I could see her standing up, (she hadn’t stood up in a year and a half) she was hugging her friends and she got in a car and drove away. I’m yelling she shouldn’t be driving!!
They are comforting and sweet.
My daddy passed 18 years ago and after a few years my KIDS were telling me they were dreaming of him--and their dreams were almost spot on to what mine were.
They didn't remember my dad from when he wasn't sick, so for them to dream of him in full health with hair! (he was bald from age 21(!) was a very specific kind of dream.
It bothered a couple of them, but for me?? I felt like I'd had a sweet visit from him.
I had a dream about my father shortly after he died. I'd always find pennies and dimes on the ground, which I felt were sent from him. In my dream, he was smiling broadly, and laughing, standing up (he'd been wheelchair bound for the last year of his life), and holding out a shiny new penny towards me. He died in 2015 and I remember that dream like it happened yesterday. I believe it was a visitation from him, showing me it WAS him sending the pennies and that he was whole again.
I want the wonderful dream where they smile and assure you that they are great. My dreams seem to be about my own reactions do her death, not “visits” that so many speak about.
I am sure as I learn to move on from the grief, my dreams will be less disturbing. Thank you all for the feedback.
A few weeks later, I dreamt I was in my front yard and I saw him from a distance. He said hey to me, but before I could say hey to him, he vanished.
A friend who lost his brother not long after my dad's passing told me that when you have dreams with deceased loved ones, you're creating new memories with them.
I also want to echo another commenter. I can also ask for answers to questions in my dreams. I have learned the hard way to not ask questions for which I’m not prepared for the answers. The answers can be unstinting in their directness.
I also note that dream work takes practice. Like anything, getting good at it takes time.
I also dream about our dogs, our two favorite elder girls especially.