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We have a convenience store nearby. There is a apt complex behind it. Every day an elderly lady would visit the store for something. She would tell the clerks that she was going away, etc. One day she didn't come in. The clerk called the police and they found the woman had passed.
We all should have someone we call or they call us every day just to check on us.
You could leave a greeting card in a sealed envelope on her door with your name and number just saying something nice like: 'I'm your neighbor, and live at *give her your address.* I haven't seen you lately, and wanted to know if you're ok. Would you please call me? And, if you need anything, please call me.' Knock a few times before leaving the card, and say 'it's your neighbor'; then leave. Make sure you wedge the card/envelope really good into the door where it opens/closes.
You could check her door later after leaving the card to see if it is gone. If it is, you know she likely got it, so you will know she's ok and moving around.
Other than something like that, it would have to be a welfare check by the police. Call the local police non emergency phone number or 911 and they'll direct you. However, that can be startling to anyone, especially if they're simply resting, sick, or enjoying time to themselves so you might think about that a good while before doing it.
That's sweet of you to be looking out for her, and at your age, too.
She could just be a complete hermit and everything is fine (my MIL was like that, she only left her house once a week for about 2 hours and never even went outside. She had a fall in her home and it took EMT's to get her up and into the ambulance.)
Or she could truly be in need. Have you yourself been inside her home? Do you know her well enough to visit her and kind of assess the situation? Does she seem to ever have visitors (again, my MIL won't open the door to anyone, so her 2 kids have keys and let themselves in. She won't willingly let anyone in her home.)
You are very kind to be concerned about her.
A long time ago I had a VCR in a repair shop. The man kept it. Was not answering the phone or the door during business hours.
I could see this fellow from the window reclining on a couch. I went home sort of baffled because this guy was ignoring me and I started to wonder if he was sick or something.
I told my neighbor about the issue. She told me to call the coroner. I figured, why not and I did. Turned out that the guy’s wife left him and he was going through a really tough time. He agreed to be taken to a mental hospital for an evaluation.
It took many months before we got our VCR from his shop. Was a strange incident. People can hit a breaking point and snap or totally zone out. He was like a zombie on his sofa. Just catatonic behavior. Was sad.
You neighbor may be fine though. Maybe she’s deaf or very hard of hearing. Does she belong to a church or any other organizations that could check on her as well? Can you ask your neighbor for a family member’s phone number if you are concerned? Then in the future you could check up on her.
My gosh, half the time I have no idea what my neighbors are doing and not really interested. Sorry, I don’t mean to sound cold. I have never been a nosey neighbor.
I was scared the house was on fire or I'd done something I didn't know was wrong. It was unsettling.
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Good luck!