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What’s the relationship of these family members to you and the elder being cared for? Just trying to establish their level of “obligation” - for a lack of a better word - to the elder.
How old are the family members that are coming to caregiver? What’s their own home situation - as in - little kids they have to bring along, empty nesters, etc. Are their kids and grandkids living with them, in other words? If not, just how far is everyone coming for these sleepovers?
How far are they - the caregivers - traveling to get there? How many days are they generally staying? How frequently do these respite breaks happen?
And, lastly - do they need the money?
p.s. Just curious - what’s the attraction
in your area that the relatives are interested in? i.e. - do you live near Disneyland, the ocean, Dollywood..?
Thanks!
My concern is when the sibling comes from out of town to stay in my home that suddenly my home gets treated as an Airbnb with that siblings children and grandchildren coming from out of town and having a reunion in my home. Money is certainly not an issue for them.
If they are doing this for free, you should really consider if this is worth a fight.
How does your mom do with all the company? That would be my only concern.
I wouldn't worry about covid, we are all exposed and quite frankly we have to die some time of something, might as well be happy in the mean while.
That being said, it's good you were able to get away. We all need a break. But if you're going to be concerned about the shape of the house when you get back, the time away won't do you much good.
I can't think of a clever way to tell them you've made other arrangements (after you have) b/c of concern for the health of everyone involved, including them, but I'd use the pandemic and the need for extreme caution to let them think you're concerned about their health.
You don't want to offend the person who was asked, and she/he may be resentful since she/he is coming and presumably staying for free. So create an excuse that focuses on concern for her/him and the kids.