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Please don't burn yourself out any further. I'm convinced that caring for my mother led to my dad's early death. Caring for your loved one "in sickness and in health" doesn't mean you have to sacrifice your own health, because that doesn't benefit either of you.
You ARE caring for her by placing her where she can receive the best care possible, so please don't put it off. The key is the correct placement, and in her case, I'd say memory care is the correct one.
Good luck.
If you are considering placing your wife and have substantial assets, I suggest you see an Elder Lawyer to have your marital assets split, Medicaid allows this. Your wife's split will be spent down for her care and when gone you can apply for Medicaid. You get enough or all of ur monthly income to cover your living expenses.
SAFETY
If it was no longer safe for ME to care for my Husband at home I would have had not option but to place him.
If it was no longer safe for HIM for me to care for him at home then I would have had to place him.
Safety is not just physical safety but all encompassing, this includes both Mental/emotional safety.
Are you exhausted?
Are you burnt out?
Is the house safe?
There is an in between that might work.
Can you get caregivers to come in and help out?
Is there an Adult Day program that she can participate in that will give you a bit of time several days a week.
Would she qualify for Hospice, with Hospice you would have a Nurse that would come every week, a CNA that would come several times a week to help out. Supplies and equipment would be provided. And Medicare pays for about 1 week of Respite each year for Hospice patients.