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Don't think I could have changed any of that history. But I surely would love a redo with the yard and would look for ways to eliminate grass rather than cultivate it. Someone mows and trims, but I tend the landscape on the half-acre lot. As Mom needs more supervision, it's harder to keep up. Also, paying for repairs that Dad used to do has eaten into our resources.
Bottom line, though, I believe everything happens for a purpose whether I know it and/or like it or not. This is not an easy life and at the same time I'm grateful for the opportunities to grow as a person. God bless us every one!
Also, PTSD was diagnosed as Alzheimers - so much for that Dr.
Just because someone is older - and they have mental issues - it doesn't mean they have AD or dementia. 2nd and 3rd opinions might help to insure diagnosis is correct.
I suspected my father's finances were a mess for a long time before I aggressively did anything about it. If I had it to do over again, I would insist that he see an elder law attorney MUCH earlier and come clean with his full financial picture. He'd be living a better life now (and so would I!).
I think most adult children are lost and overwhelmed when the time comes to be a parent to their parent and very few parents willingly hand over responsibilities to their children (Dads resist the hardest, it seems). Adult kids don't know when to 'pull the trigger' and become actively involved. And, sadly, it's often very late in the game when they do. I'm a cautionary tale.
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