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And like already said, if she only brushes once a day(with help)count your blessings and move on.
This is not a hill to die on. Trust me.
Anyway, for the teeth -- I agree with several posters who point out that at a certain age teeth become a problem we may need to let go of. Hubby's teeth are stronger than mine, especially since, having to take care of him so constantly, I haven't been to the dentist in over a year except to have one of my front teeth extracted because it split. (I look like Alfalfa.) I am starting to try to make some of my serious health issues a priority and let some of his less important ones be taken care of by whatever the future brings. His son, who lives far away but never loses an opportunity to criticize me, has told me several times that my "negative attitude" is causing his father (93 with dementia!) to "move closer to death." In reality I have moved myself much closer to death while emptying his whole house (sending to the sons anything Hubby thought they should have), putting it on the market, trying to visit him for hours every day, and staying in constant touch with his doc to avoid, if possible, speed-up of dementia or increasing pain. Hubby worships his older son a little too much, I think (he noticably treats the younger son with much less affection), and the older adored son is coming for a visit in 3 weeks to "inspect" the very nice AL place I got him into, and he'll no doubt be very critical of his father's teeth and everything else that has changed because of the dementia. Sonny, who is 65, has NO idea what I've been through and refuses to acknowledge that death is coming for all of us and that practices HAVE to change when dementia is involved. I don't see Sonny anymore after being told that I was encouraging him to die so I could get "the money." After about 2 years there will BE no money unless Sonny (who is actually a billionaire) breaks down and contributes a bit. Fortunately I am POA. I would never interfere with Sonny being able to visit or to get anything to which he is legally entitled, but in my current fragile state I will no longer spend time with someone who criticizes every move I make and tells me that I am trying to kill my beloved husband of 30 years for his non-existent money.
Anyway (back to original subject!) my advice is to forget the electric toothbrush if it is too complicated, possibly hurtful, or doesn't achieve cleanliness. With dementia we really have to learn to go with the flow on some things. Some of the things the very elderly start to do, that would have been unacceptable earlier, may be ways they are unconsciously moving themselves toward the death that IS COMING no matter what. We may find ourselves doing the same things when our turns come.
At my step-mothers MC, nothing with removable batteries are allowed, seems some fiddle with them and one person actually tried to eat one.
Regular one should do just fine.
And I have to say I usually have trouble opening the base to change the batteries on my own spin brush 🤷🏻♀️
Good luck.
At the end my mom could not remember how to turn the toothbrush on or off. Dad was far to weak but would allow me to brush his teeth.
My Mom also has a small mouth, so we got a rechargeable one from Oral B. I was told at their age, it doesn't really matter since they can't brush completely anyway.
Upon request of the dentist, I've been brushing my Mom's teeth going on 4-5 years now. He told me that she just didn't brush her teeth well enough. So once a day, I give her teeth (and tongue) a good cleaning by getting between the teeth with the interdental brushes as well as flossing her teeth. I was using the same electric toothbrush.