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For my mom, she fell & shattered hip from pulling her wheelchair at the NH she had been in for about 2 years. Now she could have had feeding tube but her advance directive stated no feeding tube. Instead the medical director wrote orders for assisted feeding & mechanized food, so the tray delivered by dietary would have been either diced for veggies or pounded thin then cooked and diced for proteins AND a CNA would sit and help mom eat as needed. After the first month, 1 meal a day would be a sandwich & sliced fruit as she could hold it. Now all this meant everbody - docs, dietary, nursing, cleaning staff - was all on the same page to have this done.
My thought and not to sound harsh, is that the MD if he is really pushing the feeding tube placed, well he has written off your mom. If he is balking at writing orders for rehab with both PT & OT, he doesn't think she is a survivor. You are going to have to do whatever to get her eating and get a second opinion to get rehab ordered. For foodstuffs, get toddler foods - all kinds of new varieties available now. Plus their shelf stable and she likely can eat most of a jar. Also often grocers carry birthday party size goodies ( like a box of a dz mini sherbets or mini lava cakes). Assisted feeding will be quite messy till you both get a rhythm going so bring a towel or pillowcase to drape around mom and wet wipes. For my mom day 10 after fall was the turning point for recovery. Good luck & keep your energy going.