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The NH is a business, so they will focus on billing.
The details of Medicaid vary from state to state, so contact a free health insurance navigator (program similar to Ombudsmen for nursing homes, funded by federal money) to see if you can get more information.
Call Eldercare Locator at 1-800-677-1116 and ask for State Health Insurance Programs for her state. They can connect you to people who are trained to help people understand what insurance programs do/don't cover, and how to fill out applications. They don't give advice on a particular situation. They may be able to help walk you through the application and figure out where to find supporting documents.
The application requires your mother to
show who she is with supporting documents as to her identity.
show what her income is now, with supporting documents
show where her money has gone in the past 5 years, with documentation (bank statements, etc).
Once I realized that the form was 3 different parts with different purposes, and that each part needed documentation from the government or bank or tax records, it was easier to keep track of the whole mess.
Also, copy everything you send in, and send the package with delivery confirmation, so that it can be located if it 'gets lost' somewhere. Good luck.
and don't use your money for her bills. If the nursing home loses money, I wouldn't worry. and you are not responsible for her bills, even if they try to convince you that you are.
It sounds like your mother is in need of long term care in a Skilled Nursing Facility with Medicaid footing the bill if she doesn't have sufficient income to foot the bill. Speak to the social worker at the SNF she's current at for rehab; s/he can steer you in the right direction, most likely. You may also want to speak to an Elder Care attorney about the Medicaid requirements and lookback period in your state.
Like BarbB said, you can get a needs assessment done as well, but a doubly incontinent person is not likely to be accepted into AL. If you have Morningstar AL in your area, they DO take elders with more needs than most other ALs, but the monthly costs are also quite a bit higher. Your first step should be to speak with the social worker at the SNF mom is currently at, to get some guidance as to how to move forward.
Best of luck with a difficult situation.
Ombudsmen, like social workers, come in 2 varieties; great and terrible. Glad you've got at least one good one!
If she has any assets, she will have to self pay until she has less then 2k cash. Insurance doesn't pay for LTC.
Someone is going to have to find a facility that meets her current needs and hopefully, her increasing needs until death. I wouldn't leave that to a stranger, I would have someone that loves mom do this. Even if you need to take a break from work. Because facilities vary so much, you want to make sure she is going to what seems to be the best choice for her. It may not work out that way but, you have to start there. look for some place that has obvious good interactions with the residents. Does it pass the smell test, how is the food? Do they have activities daily? It isn't necessarily going to be a new, fancy building, that is the least important thing.
Best of luck, this is such a difficult transition and the most stressful for you.
Call her doctor, admit to a NH until bedsores are treated.
I know this from experience.
They are all understaffed and you can literally lay in your urine and feeces for up to an hour.
They have special blow up mattresses that your mom should have been on to help with bed sores and they should have been applying butt paste ointment to help with not getting bed sores.
You should check with her Insurance and find our exactly what your options are and what is covered.
Your mom will continue to go downhill in a Nursing Home.
Please work something else out.
She needs to be taken out of the Nursing Home like yesterday!
You can have her signed up with Home Health where Audes will come 3 times a week to give her a Shower Bath or Bed Bath.
Mom can have In Home Therapy.
A Nurse will come by once a week to check on her and take her vital signs and she'll report to a Dr that can give rx's for healing the butt sores.
I found that virgin coconut oil does wonders for it but you must keep a thick layer of thick butt paste on the skin to keep moisture out.
If she can't get up to go to the bathroom. While in bed, she keep her laying on a diaper but keep the diaper opened so air can get to her.
You can check around and find Care help for $10 an hr you don't need a Nurse for Caregiver.
Praters your mom doesn't have to spend her end of life in a Nursing Home as it's a slow and painful death sentence in both physical and mentally.
Also, if your Dad was in the Military, your mom could qualify for up to 30 hrs of Caregiver Help a week.
I would ask for a care conference and ask to see the PT and OT goals. Talk to the therapists and ask for documentation that she has met those goals.
Make them demonstrate to you that mom can walk 50 feet without assistance, for example.
Call the Ombudsman and report the bedsores and ask what can be done about them.
Is a wound care doctor tending them? Ask for mom to be seen by one asap. Or transfered back to the hospital for treatment.
And discharge to a defferent rehab.