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This is important to the whole family. Try to let her know you'll all have more peace of mind if you get this done.
Good luck,
Carol
Keep in mind the lookback for Medicaid eligibility is 5 years. If you think that will be needed to pay for your mom's care, then you should gear your decisions to be at Medicaid compliant asset level by 2016.
IMHO you should have the following done:
- Durable Power of Attorney (not just POA)
- Medical Power of Attorney
- Living Will &/or Advance Directives (DNR) - you can wait on this if you think it will freak your mom out
- Declaration of Guardian in Event of Incapacity
- HIPAA Waiver
- Will (or updating it) or a Living Trust (for those with significant estate)
I'm a firm believer in having an elder care attorney take care of all this. It will not be expensive as most is done by the paralegals. You do want to go in prepared with what the information is for the documents (e.g. the residence located at 123 ABC street, aka parcel #5678; Ann Smith, wife of John Smith, with the info on all the births, deaths & prior marriages) as well as valid ID for the elder. If the decisions have been already made, this should all simple, straightforward paperwork. Should take 1 - 2 hrs for intake & then 1 hr a couple of days later for the signatures.
If mom has assets, then all this should be paid from her assets. This also is important if you ever get challenged. If you pay for all, and you benefit, then other family could go to court to find it a coerced document. Even the most kum-ba-ya family can get strange over $$.
If your mom has a home, getting an attorney who practices in the county where the home is best. They or rather their paralegals know exactly the most efficient way to deal with assesor's, etc. Good luck.