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Profile: " "I am caring for my mother, living at home and the primary ailment is alzheimer's / dementia"
Sheba66's post on that thread: "I am 32 years old, male, and my wife
and six year old daughter and I live with my grandmother in her home. ....."
"I could not bring myself to agree to my mom's terms, so she moved to an apartment. "
This thread: Sheba66's profile, same as in the other thread. But now you have a son instead of a daughter.
Hmmmmmmm - we have a mystery here. Sheba, how can you clarify these inconsistences? Do you have a daughter as in first post or son as in this post? Are you, or were you, living with your mother but left b/c of your son, or are you living with your grandmother?
Inquiring minds want to know.
Good for you for making a move.
Free rent?
Girlfriend does nothing?
Child in the home?
Pig Sty?
Son is abusive-
to you,
to girlfriend?, to child,? or in front of child?
Don't go there for 3 days, call child protective services and Adult protective services.
If your son is doing drugs, tell the authorities.
You did good lady, now follow through.
Blow this criminal situation out of the water.
Oh, and follow Garden Artist's suggestion to get psychiatric care....you have been abused, brain washed, and probably gaslighted by your son.
Stop giving him any money at all...pay the bills for your mother yourself, bring groceries (or have them delivered.) Are you and mother supporting him?
This is not criticism, but it's a clear indication that professional help is needed. And if it's been going on for some time, as it seems to have been, you might not even be aware of the complex dynamics of his abuse, your guilt and apparent self recrimination.
I emphasize that I am not criticizing you, but I think blunt words are appropriate to address the situation so you can get help.