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1. Wound care treatment and plan
2. Anemia/nutrition treatment and plan
3. eligibility for PT
4. eligibility for hospice.
Make yourself a list of all the issues you'd like to get answers to. Are these comments about his being "an old guy" a veiled hint that he needs hospice? If so, they need to speak up and discuss it with you and with your dad, not pussyfoot around.
When he broke his hip last November, it was the final straw. First he didn't like the food in the rehab facility (where they were totally unaware of his anemia until I told them, and insisted upon it being checked again.) Then after coming home to the diet he preferred, he couldn't seem to gain weight ever again. We did the Boosts, the Ensures, his favorite foods, a high-protein high-fat diet, etc. Nothing worked. So was it really the pancreatic cancer? Perhaps. And cancer does dramatically affect blood levels of hemoglobin. But the anemia played a major part in his decline.
Get a nurse involved in the care.
Since you are concerned about his nutrition, please talk to his doctor. His doctor can have labwork drawn to see if anemia is a problem, to diagnose the type of anemia, and to prescribe treatment.
I'm going thru a similar situation with my 90 year old mom who fell and broke her femur last March. She was in the hospital for surgery then acute rehab, then back in the hospital with pneumonia, then back in acute rehab, and finally home May 1st with intensive Home Health Services including therapy. I keep up with all her vitamins and meds. I noticed they put her on an iron supplement at some point, for a new diagnosis of anemia. I believe this was diagnosed in the acute rehab. It's really hard to tell how everything went down because of the coronavirus and not being able to be there at all.
She fell and broke her femur on a Sunday morning and they did not operate until Tuesday afternoon. They did not feed her or give her any liquids prior to surgery, which I know from speaking with the doctors and nurses in the hospital. And they also didn't monitor her fluids in and out after the surgery, which was frustrating because she has CHF also. My mom was borderline anemic , I think, before she fell. They did give her at least one blood transfusion in the hospital after surgery.
Anyhow to answer your question about the physical therapy, my mom is getting Physical Therapy. In our situation and from what I understand from my mom having Home Health Rehab several times for various reasons over the years , is that the therapist cannot prescribe any medication or assess those issues. However, they can notify the care manager in charge of our loved ones care. I don't know if this is your first time dealing with this type of situation. The way that has worked for my mom is there has to be doctor's orders for therapy of any kind whether it's physical, occupational, speech. The Doctor who's writing the orders is supposed to be managing the care. For example my mom currently has Home Health. The company that is managing the Home Health has a PA who comes out and does an assessment and then recommends the therapy. If you're in a facility, there is an attending doctor that does this. You may need to call the attending or the PA yourself. I always make sure I have everyone's phone number and position listed in the planner that I keep for my mom. Do not hesitate to call and request, demand if you have to, any assessments, lab test, treatments , meds, Etc. Also if you're doing home health, there should be a skilled nurse coming out to visit at least once a week; he or she should be able to call and report to care mgr on the spot. Heck, my mom flailed around in her sleep last week and sliced her arm open, and even the home health aide who comes into shower her called the nurse immediately to report the wound. She could not treat the wound as a home health aide, but she could report it. Of course I was there and I treated it but I wanted the nurse to come in and look at it. If you're in a facility then you want to speak to the charge nurse to get in touch with the doctor or the PA and request they call you. There's no reason for your dad to not get treatment during reconditioning. A lot of things pop up and need to be dealt with. But in my experience, the therapist can only alert the medical team of a problem. If they're not doing that, then you'll have to be the one to step in and insist on the better care from the medical team. If your dad is not getting the care he needs and the agency or facility is not responsive to your phone calls, then I would get a different agency or go to a different facility that is more proactive and caring.
My communication regarding my mom is less complicated because I have general power of attorney and durable power of attorney for health care. I wave my papers in everyone's face and when I'm introducing myself I let them know. I have copies ready for distribution and I keep a special copy to make them print their name, facility, date and sign that they received it. When they sign for it, they can see the growing list of receipt signatures , so they know I mean business.
Good good luck in getting your
Thanks to everyone for such rich information. Here is another part of this story.
Thanks Babziellia your experience overlaps much with mine. Dad is 90. I also have POA. General power of attorney but frankly I do not see how it could help getting anyone's attention.
The problem here is that doctors fail to recognize anemia as reason for him not having stamina.
The doctor called it chronic anemia. How did it get chronic from March to May?
I asked for a hematologist consult and he dismissed it by having his clear cut diagnosis: chronic anemia. Then he reminded me of his age. Even with a POA. These doctors would not give a second thought.
He is 90. Anemic. Pressure ulcer not improving. Bedridden. Adding all that without treatment of course time will corroborate they were right.
Anyone without treatment for anemia nor pressure injuries cannot thrive.
It is unethical for them to dismiss his care. Sending him to a "natural" winding down ....at home.
Every week they push a little bit more.
This story began only on March 11. Dad is 90 never sick in his life other than the first time he fell over 20 years ago I think. He got a femoral implant then. Since then he kept a walking cane. Until maybe 5 or 6 years ago graduated down to a walker. He has always had a big appetite. Even now! He was not eating Only because they were not giving him food while waiting around for procedures. First colonoscopy. Then discharged only to come back next day with broken hip. Then 5 more days no food. Then a colectomy. No food until next day. Then one more until midnight in preparation for his hemiarthroplasty.
Then ICU no food. I do not know if next 24 hours he ate anything. So in 3 weeks He saw all his life as he knew it passing by. He was discharged to a SNF after 2 weeks in hospital.
At SNF I had to request something for his anemia. Agreed on some kind of shot to stimulate RB production. Anything I told the attending doctor.
He was weak but slowly recovering. The therapist said he couldn't get up. Another phys assistant simply told me he is very sick! He is old. Except did not say which illness he had! So I asked for motion range exercise at least. They were eager to get him walking regardless of anemia. Of course he tried. But not able to stand up on walker. Then discharged. Came back home via ambulette.
Skilled nursing was rushing him out. The only thing good was that his hemoglobin level was up. Only because I pushed as a necessity for physical therapy success. You suggest more discussion is needed with his physician? Physicians do not discuss anything unless I am as forceful as possible. I notice they do not dialogue. They Only have to say what they originally had to say. This is ugly. Really. Gets worse when several physicians gang up and crosscontaminate their thinking processes.
My question was why his anemia wasn’t found before he had surgery. Everyone has pre-op labs done. He may have lost some blood during the surgery to have caused the anemia, or not. Why wasn’t this found before?
A lot of variables here. We have an emaciated patient with a reddened area on his sacrum from your last post who appeared to have been on bed rest for months prior to surgery. Am I correct?
Where was he before all this happened? People don’t get malnutrition or anemia overnight. Malnutrition is a contributing factor to developing pressure ulcers.
Re his anemia. Often physicians don’t transfuse red blood cells unless the HGB is less than 7-8. Without knowing his numbers it’s hard to tell. Anemia can be caused by many things most common is low iron. Some people are prescribed B12 injections or take it by mouth for pernicious anemia. And of course bone cancer can cause anemia because red blood cells are made in the large bone marrow- femur and iliacs.
For bones to strengthen to produce red blood cells (all blood cells I should say) the bones need to be used and exercised. So your father has to get up and move. His inactivity most likely led to his reddened sacral area.
PT’s don’t order transfusions. The PT person could have just said this in passing without knowing his history. Some patients get CHF when transfused so they have to balance many factors. But if his HGB is not too low he won’t get transfused.
If you don’t like how he is being managed get him another doctor.
He needs to get moving, anemia or not. I suspect a lot of this is dad being tired is not only due to anemia but also because the man hasn’t had any physical activity in a long time. The longer he stays in bed the longer it will take to recover.
Push him to get up and do PT. Standing builds up the bone. Anemia or not, post op hip replacements need to exercise. His doctors can work to fix the anemia but right now dad needs to put some effort into therapy. Make sure they pre-Medicate him 1 hour before PT. I had a hip replacement @ 60 y/o- the pain he is having is post-op pain from the incision because the hip pain should be gone. I had surgery at 7:30am and they made me get up and walk at 6pm- around the nurses’ station! No more hip pain for me.
2 weeks ago, my FIL was found to have extremely low hemoglobin which did not improve much after 2 units of blood were given. He likely had some condition that was causing bleeding somewhere but at 95, with dementia, we elected not to put him thru any investigation of the source.
There are hazards to bed rest. PT is ordered to try to mobilize patient. It was ordered by the doctor. OP needs to have this discussion with his doctor. We don’t have enough information to provide advice.
Where was Dad prior to surgery that he was not given any nutrients?
Who has diagnosed the anemia?
https://www.agingcare.com/questions/any-practical-advice-for-a-total-novice-on-wound-care-for-unstageable-pressure-sore-management-458954.htm
I don't understand though how he could have been deprived of food and water for "days", while waiting for surgery. Was he given any kind of infusion sustenance?
Anemia doesn't creep up; it has a cause, and the issue of hemoglobin needs to be addressed. He can get an iron shot (which a doctor suggested when I was anemic), or he can take iron pills - dependent on what a doctor evaluates.
Shane can offer better insights on this, but I would think that addressing anemia will help him become stronger and more able to heal, all over.
And there are gentle exercises that can be done while laying in bed, very controlled ones that don't exhaust him. But he needs nutrition to support his recovery. And he needs and is entitled to a coordinated approach to recovery.
It seems to me that the course of treatment is somewhat disjointed; he needs to become stronger to heal from the surgery as well as the pressure sores.
Have you been to this hospital before?