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Kimbee, I thought it had to do with her legs and ciruclation, too, so I started having mother do some walking in place (while still seated) and even have her elevate and straighten/press each leg against my thigh so she will have the sensation of putting weight on her legs. That seems to help when she is getting out of her recliner, but it doesn't seem to make much difference after a bathroom break. These spells are more about cognition than physical strength, I suspect. The episode doesn't happen immediately upon standing; it tends to be a couple of minutes later. I read elsewhere that it is helpful to put our mothers' feet on a little stepstool or something (after they're seated on the toilet) so their feet are a little elevated (apparently it helps with bowel movements, but that's another issue.) :o)
Jeanne, it is really helpful to know that these spells are not that unusual with dementia patients. The first few times it happened, I panicked. I thought she was having a major event. Mother has never been diagnosed with a particular type of dementia, but I suspect it would be considered vascular dementia (small blockages in her brain?). She was doing very well living independently with only minimal assistance in the morning until a month ago when something changed one afternoon. The CT scan didn't reveal a stroke, but since then her speech is slurred and she has much more aphasia, she is weaker on the right side, and she now needs a gait belt & attendant in order to walk. Following a stint in a rehab hospital, she now has a wheelchair. Like you said, I want her to be as strong as possible to be able to help with transfers (and exercise actually seems to help her thinking/cognition). So far, I haven't noticed the "spells" after other exertion, but I'll be on the lookout for that. If they were just something we could anticipate, they would be much easier to manage, but that may be wishful thinking. . . .
I'm also ashamed to admit that the first couple of times these "spells" happened, I honestly thought she was just being stubborn/difficult. I thought I could make her keep walking by telling her she was about to fall, etc. I'm glad you explained that these episodes are most likely real. Mother's manifestations are identical to what you describe in her your husband (Jeanne) and your Mother (Kimbee).
I'm so thankful I found this forum! Thank you for your responses.
I don't know what these spells are called, or anything techncial about them. (Maybe someone else here will enlighten us both.) My husband is in his 10th year of Lewy Body Dementia. These episodes are fairly recent for us. I know from other caregivers that this is not unusual in this disease. I do not know about other forms of dementia.
Do discuss these symptoms with the doctor who is treated your mother's dementia. And if you do not now own a wheelchair, I think you would find it worthwhile to have one on hand. I suggest a transport chair, unless your mother is a very large woman.
Good luck!