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So, do ask for hospice. They will evaluate, and most likely accept him as a hospice. just know, they will keep him with hospice for 30 days or so, and then reevaluate as need be... It is okay.
Hospice is there to help the patient and the family out in this time of need... to make the transition to death peaceful.
My LO with liver cancer did not go on hospice, and I talked with him all night long.. I had to pull his futon out from the other room and place it on the floor next to the bed.... any movement on the bed sent pain... but he didn't want to be alone... He wasn't....
Every death has been a bit different... just wish it could be peaceful everytime.. and, it's not just humans it's all our family - furry ones included....
Just get hospice, another pair of eyes t keep you sane...they will call in a chaplain, or whoever you want... they will sit with you and talk with you in person or on phone...they will be there to listen, talk, and pray, whatever it takes.
it s okay.. Just make sure your LO knows they are loved, and it is okay to transition over when the time comes...
Liver disease that includes the spleen is likely very advanced, it may be time to do some research on that. I have to assume that at some point a doctor explained the options to your parents and they made a choice in that regard?
It may be time to ask for a hospice evaluation, from there you will need to consider whether continuing to care for him at home is possible.
Can your parents afford to pay for an in home caregiver?
Your family is your first priority. They will require more and more care. Start looking for suitable care now.
If need be, speak to a social worker to help assist in this process.
Are they on Medicaid or Medicare? If Medicaid, have you considered a suitable nursing home for them?
Best wishes to you and your family.
Thank you so much..