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Rather than look for money, you may find an easier time finding services. In your circumstances, it sounds like case management, respite, and adult day care will be very helpful and these services can mostly be had at little or no charge through both public, private, and not for profit entities.
If she is eligible or can become eligible she may benefit from Medicaid home and community based services if available in your area. Medicaid will subsidize some expenses leaving more money for other services.
Lastly, if she or her spouse was a veteran she may be eligible for VA Aid and Attendance Improved Pension which will provide her, as a surviving spouse, up to $1056 per month towards her unreimbursed cost of care.
P.S. It is difficult to compel family members to do anything. Everyone has there reasons for being involved or not being involved...some of these issues may go way back to childhood in some instances. I encourage my clients not waste tears and energy trying to get others to do things. Focus on you, your family, and your mother. Reach out to those who have the capacity and willingness to be of service...there are angels out there.
Everything depends on income, age, and physical state.
good luck
If you are just starting this journey, (and we have all been there) please remember, that since you are the primary caregiver that you have the final word. If your mother is not up to Easter services, then allow her to worship at home (God lives there too :o) Certain expectations are just not realistic as seniors get older. Stop putting additional stress on yourself - it seems to come on all by itself.
My mother, too, is refusing to leave her home. We stopped fighting it and just make sure she is comfortable and happy. We bring her food, take care of errands, bring her to the doctor, etc... It is all work and no fun, but there is no one else stepping up to the plate to help.
btw, you should be able to find an "office on aging" (goes by different names in each state) on either your state's website, (or city or county too.)
good luck and wishing you a calm Happy Easter