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We've had these phones for months now and they're wonderful! Now when the phone rings I know it's actually legitimate. We were getting 3 or 4 spam calls a day which was infuriating, despite being on the Do Not Call Registry.
If you haven't done it yet, put fraud alerts, or better yet, credit freezes (can't remember the right terminology now) on her credit profile.
https://www.agingcare.com/search?term=frauds+and+scam+calls
These other posts might offer some suggestions for your mother's situation.
If the phone number is changed, scammers will still find a way to get it.
I'd be leery of removing a phone entirely b/c of emergencies. Does she have life alert pendant or device? If not, and if she's alone and needs help, how could she call for help?
Something you could try is false information: e.g., tape a little card on the phone with a fake credit card number, or all of the same number, or even letters.
I used to, and occasionally get calls with a real live person on the other end; these are typically computer scams, trying to get access to my computer. So now I ask what a computer is, then tell them I don't have one, that I communicate with friends by carrier pigeons. That usually causes a pause on their end. Unfortunately I usually start laughing so they know I'm jerking them around.
But the number of computer calls has drastically diminished.
A relative has a good retort for those annoying back brace calls. She said she only has one pain, in her butt, and it's caused by YOU (the caller).
Unfortunately, these vermin a like a plague; even if you get rid of one, there are more hiding in the wings.
One poster who hasn't been here for years had a good solution. Her mother also had dementia, if I remember correctly. But her mother was feisty, so she had her mother answer the calls and give the caller a real "run for his/her money", asking all sorts of irrelevant questions.
You may need to consider financial POA now and control of her account with her having a spending account that is all hers. Buying things for the home is one thing, but this is a 100,000 swoop in often enough. Current AARP paper is all about the scams and how intricate they can be. They have a good website with information on scams.
No matter what you do with the phone numbers, the scams will continue to come.
Midkid- never, never return the call. That just marks you as a 'live' number and the number will be resold to other scammers. When you got a call from your own number, the scammer was using a "spoofer" program. They can make the call look like it's coming from anyone- the local police, your grandchild or a government agency. It should be illegal.
If you get a call don't trust the caller ID. If they say it is the local police, hang up and call your local police department ...and not on any number given to you by the person on the phone call either. People are running these scams from JAIL! Incarcerated people are calling using these spoofing tactics. It's crazy.
I don't know if that is still available--theses scammers have zero soul and can figure out out how to circumvent everything.
SOME callers have a 'call back' feature. I call them back and get a recording saying if I want my number removed it will be so. I have no idea if it actually works. But sometimes I'll sit down and call back ALL the telemarketers and try to do this.
I actually got a call from my own number once. They'd actually 'hacked' my landline. I have no idea how.
My mom (age 90) has had a cell phone for the last 10 years. She has no clue how to use it. So it sits on her nightstand all day and night. I have reminded her more than 50 times that she can have her landline reconnected and she doesn't. She just likes to complain.
If someone really needs to talk to her, they know to call YB with whom she lives and he'll get the message to her.