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You asked what you can expect? Well, likely more strokes or mini-bleeds. Doubtful she'll come back to where she was before the stroke.
Just love her and let her know you're OK to be without her and she can go home to your dad.
Bless you during this difficult time.
Did her doctor say what the alternative to hospice would be?
You don’t want your mom to suffer and hospice will keep her comfortable.
I am so sorry you and your mom are faced with this medical and emotional dilemma.
Keep in touch if you wish to speak further.
Best wishes to you and your family.
Mom refuses any rehab or care, she wants to just see what happens. She asked to go back to the long term care facility that she was previously in. She needs an evaluation and a covid test in order to go back.
Is Mom able to swallow?
You say she is intact cognitively. If so this is time to discuss with her Doctor and with Mom how hard she wants to fight going forward. Would she want palliative care or aggressive care and rehab. Everyone is different in what they want.
You may see in this coming month either a lot of dramatic improvement or a lot of dramatic deterioration. Meanwhile SNF or Rehab may give time to see where this is going.
Be guided by the doctors. They should be able to read the scans to give you a better idea of how to move forward.
Everyone is different. I myself would be glad to bank up in bed with the "good meds" at 91, and peacefully go to my rest. Some seniors, like my Mom by her history, don't care to go anywhere. She told me she still had her book half read (The Things they Carried; still remember it sitting, her glasses on top of it, unfinished).