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They will work with you to find a placement and to apply for Medicaid if that's needed.
Have you thought about a care facility?
I wonder if other people on this forum might have ideas about how to convince your mom to take her meds. I'm wondering if it's possible to tell a fib and say it's a vitamin or....?
She is not scheduled to return to her dentist's office (where an oral surgeon is scheduled to treat her) until Wednesday next week.
I think since she can't reliably follow instructions like this, you have to give her the correct number of tablets, hand her some water and watch her swallow them. The poor lady seems to be too prone to confusion to be trusted to take her meds correctly, consistently.
It's very important that you tell the psychiatrist that she only started taking them in midMarch, not when prescribed in October. The second med you mentioned is the generic version of Seroquel which is an atypical antipsychotic. It can be a miracle drug for some folks with depression.
In reference to Cipro and Bactrim you need to make certain she has 6 8oz glasses of water a day at a minimum, as Bactrim can cause kidney stones or renal impairment which will make your mother loopy. Flush her kidneys well as she can get dehydrated.
My Mom got real loopy and Sundowners after her UTI Drugs, very common!
What antidepressant did your mother start taking?
Sundowning, at least for my mom, was really never about what time of day it was. We just noticed that she was different in the early evening when my SIL visited after work. She would insist that she had a terrible communicable disease, etc. When I would call her in the AM, nothing was wrong.
Sundowning is a behavioral issue that affects people, mostly those with dementia. In the late afternoon/early evening, they appear to have delusions/hallucinations that are not present during the daylight hours. Can you Google "sundowning"?