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If the date next to your name is your birth year, then your 63 years old. You can collect Social Security, but you will only get about 75%. You can get help with electricity and heat thru the utility companie. Call your County Office of Aging and see what resources you can take advantage of.
As POA, you cannot use Dads money on yourself. As said, its a conflict of interest. His money now goes towards his care. If on Medicaid, he should have no money. Most States the asset cap is 2k.
I am sure the state in which you live can help to pay your electric bill if you have low income. Check with your state to see what help you can get.
Do you feel completely capable of doing POA work?
Have you seen an elder law attorney to learn rules about "self enrichment" and have to learned to keep track of every penny into and out of dad's accounts, keeping files and etc?
Your Dad's POA pays for this expert help. I feel you should make an appointment to learn rules, regulations and legalities.
If you are managing Dad's money that means he is no longer competent.
And if Dad isn't competent he isn't able to make decisions about "giving money away".
You cannot give his money away, even for bills, even to yourself.
Now, you don't tell us whether or not your Dad is living with you in your home.
If so this all changes. You CAN go to the elder law attorney with your POA (again this is paid for by Dad's funds) and you can arrange a shared living expenses and fee for management contract. This will be legally drawn and will include such things as food for Dad, gas and light bills, rental or mortgage costs, transport to appointments, and a fee for doing POA record keeping.
It is crucial that you know your DUTIES and your RIGHTS in your own state. Operating as POA is a legal duty and held to the highest standards. You must know what you are doing and be fully educated about your duties. I found it a STEEP learning curve. Good luck.
Are you disabled? Your Dad is 95 so you're way into adulthood yourself... not a child that needs support. Time for you to become independent.
Your dad is living in a facility so the funds are to be used for that.
If you are POA how is your brother dictating where your dad lives?
As POA you should be the one making decisions UNLESS you are Financial POA and your brother is Health POA.
Bottom line you are going to have to find a way to reduce your bills so that you can pay them.
I guess the exception would be if you are living in dad's house then you must pay bills and maintain that property so that it can be eventually sold to either continue to pay for his care of after his death it would be sold to distribute among heirs. (Unless dad leaves you the house)