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You're past that. You absolutely cannot do this anymore. I'm sorry.
Call 911 the next time she is agitated and have them take her to the ER. Then you can start the process of going from hospital straight to a facility. The social workers at the hospital will try to get you to bring her home. Refuse it no matter how much they urge you to take her. She is not safe in your home because she is unmanageable in your home, and will not do what is needed to keep her stable.
Hugs 🤗
The fact that you can not get medications of any type into her makes it difficult if not impossible to deal with anxiety.
sorry that I don't have a better idea for you.
Your mother is in a crisis situation and needs medication to calm her down asap.
You've gotten some great advice, I just wanted to wish you luck and send you a hug.
Hugs 🤗 back!
You now have to do not only what's best for your mom, but also what's best for you as well. Wishing you the best in this tough situation.
I am sorry. This is so sad for you both.
Neither one of you is living much of a life right now. It sounds pretty hellish, actually.
Maybe it’s time to let go of your current arrangements and go back to just being your Mom’s daughter.
Best wishes to you.
My 99-yr old aunt started doing something similar where she yells "Help me!" at the top of her lungs randomly (even when you're not doing anything to her). I had to take her to the bank so I could be added to her account, but left her in the car as she's not very mobile. Long story short, "someone" called the police while I was inside with the clerk. I wish you much wisdom and peace in your heart as you ponder how to move forward.