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Our solution was that one of her caregivers was good with animals, so she put a bag over the arrangement - so the animal couldn't get out - and took it out of the house. Caregiver put the whole thing in her car and took it to her house. Mom never mentioned it again and was no longer afraid.
You might have to get creative. Tell her that the person who was hitting people has moved, you saw the moving van being loaded. That the mad people are on vacation for the summer. Something she'll believe. You can't argue with her reality, but you can expand it on a level she understands to make her feel safer.
You shoulda seen that dragon. It was awesome. :-)
My brother had Lewy's and the hallucinations were REAL and very disturbing. Any anxiety situation made them particularly bad.
They could be brought on by any disturbing patterns in carpeting, marble wall, any sort of swirly patterns. His hallucinations ranged in his telling from fun to disturbing and he was a real raconteur in retelling them: everything from a pool party outside his window with a fellow in white shorts, towel over his shoulder and Elvis hairstyle, to immigrant woman being pursued and huddled in corner protecting her child, to violence and threats of same. He understood these weren't real after they occurred, as he was in early stages.
Keeping the anxiety levels low was about the only thing that worked for my bro. Once he was in ALF and I was taking over all bills and executive function he felt free and secure and suffered a lot fewer. He did not descend further into his Lewy's prior to his death from sepsis, something he personally hoped for.
I sure wish you luck. Don't have any answers. But you aren't alone.
Also, you should ask her doctors. There can be a million reasons for hallucinations/paranoia…
Examples of causes: side-effects of medicine (Parkinson’s medicine, just as an example, is famous for creating nightmares/hallucinations/paranoia that can unexpectedly come and go)…
UTI…
Dementia…
Ask her doctor.
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