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would you like some help with that?
would you like to go get a sandwich?
is it getting too hot in here for you?
Elders with dementia can be predictably changeable. They like a food one day and don't like it the next. They say they won't company, then get angry and stressed if anyone comes. We usually know the person we're dealing with, however, so know what is going to happen and how to handle it. I think at the end of each day we should give ourselves a pat on the back and say, "Good job." We need to hear that, if only from ourselves. Most of us do a very good job. We might have some failings and feelings here and there, but we manage to keep things working.
There are treatments for various symptoms of dementia, and that can be a big help with quality of life for patient and for caregiver. But there is no cure for dementia, and the one thing you can count on is that it will progress.
Not everyone is temperamentally suited to caring for someone with dementia. Even those who are very productive and satisfied in the role often reach a point where the dementia is beyond them.
I suggest two things to you, in addition to getting more medical advice. 1) Learn about the disease your mother has. Learn approaches and techniques that have proven useful in dealing with it. Join a local caregivers support group. Educate yourself about the family caregiver role. 2) Consider the best setting for Mother's care. Has she become "too hard to live with" at this point? If not yet, recognize that she may. Start the process of finding either additional in-home care for her or exploring care center options.
Good luck to you. Please keep us informed of how this is working out. We care!