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Goes with the territory, I'm afraid. Let it all go in one ear and out the other as there's no other choice when dementia is involved.
Good luck!
She recently gathered all her courage and told me she doesn't want me to 'clean' her apartment anymore, because I 'touch' things.
I said "That's called 'dusting' mom." But I agreed that I will no longer even GO into her apartment and we can visit in the common living room.
She swears that YB's family steals from her, but they are just making sure that 100's of boxes of puzzles and stacks of books and piles of newspapers are stacked so she has a safe walkway.
It's really a relief.
I often makes jokes about the fact that MIL always thought her housekeeper, Wilma, was taking her stuff. Weekly it would be something or other missing and the litany of "Wilma took it". Now, at 78 and 80, as my partner and I increasingly mislay something or other we know we will come across we are constantly laughing and saying to one another "Wilma took it".
There is little you can do about this but reassure her. My own brother, who kept almost ALL his mentation intact during his diagnosis of probable early Lewy's Dementia, and until his death, did begin to be paranoid about two things and that was believing someone stole from him and he knew who did it (later found wrapped in his own white towel stack) and that people were entering his room at his ALF without his permission.
We all know that there are people so nefarious they will prey upon helpless seniors. This isn't helped by the fact that even when they have no thieves about, they still believe people are taking their "stuff".
If that's not the issue and this new behavior has come on suddenly, perhaps have her checked for a UTI, as that can cause lots of mental confusion. Wishing you the best, as I know it must be hard when you are states away from where she is.