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Mom is self-medicating her depression would be my non-professional guess.
But if this NEW behaviour, I'd discuss with her Doctor.
If I was your Sster I would say No to any alcohol.
The question to ask is: What is stopping your Sister from saying no? 🤔
What I *would* say is..
I will not serve you alcohol, unless under a Doctor's order. (Eg slow withdrawal)
If you are able to walk to shops without me to buy it - go ahead.
If you want to have a tantrum about it - go ahead.
If you want me to set up a Doctor appointment to discuss why you feel like you need alcohol - I will.
If you want to talk to someone about feeling sad, or low - I will listen. I will also find someone professional to listen.
Adjusting to old age IS tough!
Setting boundaries with tantrum throwers is also hard 🙃
A friend 's family had to do this very thing with 90 something Father afters few rounds of hospital-rehab-home, He was losing control of his ordered life, losing the power to boss his family around & he knew it! So more drinking + more bossing, (depression too).
Family then said a Firm No - for his safety.
That's my suggestion.
Best of luck.
"pick up the luggage" by trying to cure things.
Mom won't be getting off the sauce I think. I would suggest a few visits to al-anon, where you will get support and be able to speak with people who have "been there and done this". My best to you. For Mom, my biggest worry isn't the vodka, but a fall resultant.