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I'm honoured to be among a group of wonderful people who are so willing to lend an ear.
Marialake: I'm so sorry for your predicament. (There's always someone who has it worse than I. At least my mom's somewhere else.) The stage your mother-in-law is at is what I have to look forward to. *sigh* And it's your mother-IN-LAW, too! I've only been on these boards for a couple of days, so I'm not familiar with your story. (Are there no other children of her own to help out? And -- save for a small minority of men -- why is it that the women in families tend to get "saddled" with looking after everyone? But these are questions for another thread, perhaps?)
Thanks, dear ladies. We might not have all the answers, but at least we have a place to unload!
In her world - life is all about her physically. Mostly, she says "It's cold." or "What's it doing out there?" - meaning the weather - or "I want a cookie". Nothing holds her interest these days. She stares at pencil, or spoon or book - like she's looking at aliens. When she is cold, I've tried to gently blow warm air from a hair dryer under her covers. She screams and says it's too hot. (Believe me, I am very, very careful to only blow the air for a couple seconds, not close to her skin etc. I did it for my husband when he was sick and he loved it).
I feel guilty but by day's end I need a bit of down time for myself and am too exhausted to entertain her. :(