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This is something to discuss with MD as this may now be where "she is at". You may need to accept that. Much depends upon your elders diagnosis, age, prognosis, underlying problems; these all come into play later more than just "motivation".
Discuss your loved one's current status with the MD as soon as you are able. This is a question of whether rehab and PT will help or if you are now being faced with comfort care and acceptance. Sorry for all you are both facing and wish you much good luck.
So our PCA got her to go and taught me to not respond so quickly, wait outside the door. Tell her I will be there if you fall, but I cannot be next to for every toileting exercise. You must be firm. My mother has been playing me for attention, maybe yours too ?????
Also, I want to add, her primary care physician got her on Zoloft, and anti-depressant, after about 10 days, her mood changed and she got out of bed to toilet more often.
Just some ideas.
Since you don't mention any dementia in your profile, I can only assume that your mom suffers from depression. Is she being treated for that? If not you may want to start there.
Also you can try putting a bedside commode close to her bed so she doesn't have to travel far or risk falling. She may be more open to that.
Walking also requires balance as well as strength of the abs and legs. The longer she doesn't use them, the weaker they will be. Can she sit up or is it difficult for her to sit up?
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