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Having guardianship is a big responsibility. I know a lady approaching her 80s that is trying to revolk hers over a cousin and the state will not take over. You will have to keep records of where his money goes. Report to the state every year. You will be responsible for every aspect of his life. Dealing with Medicaid if he needs it. Personally, I wouldn't take on that responsibility.
This is how I feel, and I have been there. He walked out on you. That's where your responsibility for him stopped. Maybe not legally, but emotionally. I would get him the help he needs and then walk away. Let the state take over. I would also look into a divorce. I would want my life back with no baggage.
Clemens, giving you the benefit of the doubt and assuming you are a genuine poster rather than... not a genuine poster, shall we say; would you like to post a new thread explaining that you have found explicit sexual images of your husband plus others recorded on his phone; that your marriage has been in difficulties for some years, on and off; and that you wish to file for a divorce on the grounds of adultery.
The difficulty is that your husband has been diagnosed with dementia and claims to have no memory of these events; plus of course it is possible that he has in fact been a victim of exploitation, blackmail, heaven knows what. How should you proceed?
You are sure he has dementia and is not just lying to you, yes? How far have you got with your guardianship application?
Anyway, please do edit and repost your question, because otherwise I think people may react as I did and then you won't get much helpful input.