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Why can't your Mom take time off from work? Does she not have vacation time or personal time? I think a child can behave for 5 hours. She needs to be while in school. You don't need to be at grandma's side the whole time.
A 5 year old understands the need to be calm and quite, we called it indoor voice and play. We provided activities that were less excitable, like coloring grandma pictures, constructing a play house out of cardboard boxes and planning the play we would put on with paper dolls, board games and reading, all of these worked to keep activity high and volume lower.
Making her the helper and providing age appropriate tasks for pay can be a great lesson.
Does grandma need a bedside vigilance? Can she be left alone? Is she conscious? Does she love your daughter? These all make a difference.
I think hearing a happy child can only do good and teaching a child about end of life and how we need to behave is a good thing. Win-win.
I am sure you will find a way to meet both there needs for a week.
Are there any financial resources for you to fund a couple hours of coverage for your grandmother while you are focusing on your grandchild?
Is your grandmother receiving hospice support?
Could you get “emergency coverage” from a neighbor or friend?
It sounds as though you need coverage for 2 potentially vulnerable situations. Maybe someone will help you “just this once”.
We do have hospice, and a caregiver that comes for 8 hours a day- plus my mother here at night. It's the morning shift that I usually cover while my daughter is at school that is the problem.