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(edit)I've been doing a little bit of reading on line - it is possible that a problem with the root canal may not be obvious in an x-ray, if the pain is intractable I'd be inclined to look into redoing the root canal or even consider an extraction.
Also my MIL has a nerve in her face that gives her constant pain. Keep exploring options although it is entirely possible she is obsessing on a phantom pain due to dementia or for attention.
I had an abscess and root canal was done. One year later I was back at the specialist who couldn't understand a new abscess on the same tooth. It was decided to extract the tooth and they discovered the root had cracked. This will NOT show up on an X-Ray, not even the circular kind that the specialist uses. Needless to say, the specialist was horrified and felt terrible that I was again in so much pain. He apologized profusely and explained how a cracked root doesn't necessarily show up on an X-Ray.
Tooth pain is totally debilitating and she might need an extraction. I had no more pain after the extraction, other than to my wallet, lol.
I care for my wife with advanced ALZ and I wouldn’t hesitate to at least try this approach.
Two weeks ago, it's bad enough to get herself taken to the ER and admitted for observation.
And in between? Did it settle down? If it "grumbles" without flaring up so badly, does anything help to relieve the pain?
What does strike me is that the dentist and doctor aren't saying there's nothing wrong, they're saying they can't find it. And it wouldn't be so unusual for a troublesome nerve to be very, very difficult to get to grips with. I certainly think you should try to hide (even if you can't quite drop) your suspicion that she's making this up for attention.
What is her main doctor suggesting now as a treatment strategy?
You don't say how old mom is but it sounds as if she has had D/A for a while. It may be best to be without the tooth. I am mid-age and don't have dementia, but I had a root canal several years ago and I can tell you that I have had "flair-ups" where the tooth is sensitive bordering painful--then returns to normal. It seems that D/A symptoms can include hyper-sensitivity, so these combined sensitivities may be the problem. If your mom can live without the tooth, you may consider that alternative. Just be sure the extraction is done by an oral surgeon. However, she may then miss the tooth.... Good luck with whatever you decide. So difficult to know the "right" thing to do.
Is there an immediate reaction when someone comes into the room. Does she look as though she is in pain? Is she touching the area or screwing up her face, or very restless. Is she able to sleep. What happens when she eats?
I had the same experience with a tiny abscess under a tooth. Nothing showed up so nothing could be done. Finally another dentist did a root canal and sure enough there was pus. That all cleared up but for years I could press on my face over the area and it was still sore.
Have they done blood tests to see if she shows signs of infection.
An extraction is a good idea but if she needs anesthetic that is another risk.
I think I would ask the Dr if a course of a suitable antibiotic would help. That's always a good idea prior to what could be the extraction of an infected tooth.
Agree any extraction must be done by an oral surgeon. It is a simple matter but carries great risks. Also in a facility that has fully trained staff and life saving equipment, that is assuming she is not a DNA.
Is she getting adequate pain relief medication. A couple of Tylenol won't touch that kind of pain.
Take your time and observe her carefully before making any decisions.