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It would be really helpful if you could give us more information about your husband's illness/injury and if he has dementia.
Is someone his Medical Power of Attorney? Does he have a Advance Healthcare Directive (Living Will) or a POLST?
But I will share that my FIL did not want hospice . The name itself scared him . He had dementia , COPD, CHF , cachexia and was in a lot of pain from multiple spontaneous compression fractures in his neck and spine due to severe osteoporosis . He did not want to go to the hospital . He finally agreed to hospice for the pain management aspect when his pain got severe. He also had Covid at the time . The coughing was causing more back pain . Was only about 48 hours later that he died. They put Covid on his death certificate as the cause of death . However, he had been declining already , Covid just sped up the inevitable since his heart and lungs were so compromised .
Never encourage another to face end of life and stop fighting for life if he/she doesn't want to. I say this as a fan of hospice and as someone who would end my life through a final exit of MAiD (medical assistance in dying) laws. I am a FAN of the grim reaper. That doesn't mean your husband is, nor should be.
lT IS YOUR HUSBAND'S decision alone.
I was encouraged to get a podiatry opinion and treatment about a toe nail infection he had by the Hospice nurse who came once a week and doctor who saw him every three months, so Hospice care in his case was not just EOL care. He improved while in Hospice care.
She used to get really mad/embarassed that the van the Hospice nurse drives has "In Home Hospice" printed in huge letters on the sides.
Well---sorry, not sorry.
And FWIW, Hospice can last for a really, really long time. we were told MIL had 2-3 weeks and we're staring down the barrel of a 2nd YEAR. (well, not until Jan., but it's not what we'd all thought.)
The only way the kids could have kept her home with the appropriate care was through Hospice. I'm not involved, so I don't know that much, but I know that w/o the meds she takes (only anti anxiety ones) she could not be cared for at home, her constant panic attacks make life miserable.
It is a great way to ensure that a person is getting all the supplies and equipment that is needed in order for the caregivers to safely care for a person.
Hospice not only supports the person that has a life limiting illness but Hospice also supports the family.
His doctors can explain it to him but tell him that he can "try it out" if he does not like it you can discontinue Hospice care. Tell him to give it a month. That gives the Hospice staff, him and you a bit of time to get used to everything.